Bi-Curious? Bad Idea
by Someone always get hurts.
Lesbian or Gay Bar. Bi-Curious eyes the room. Sees a ‘candidate’. Eye contact. Movement, Conversation. Soon, in a bed. And then what?
Many Bi-Curious are experimenting. Maybe it’s going to be a ‘top that!’ story. Maybe it’s going to be something to giggle about. Or maybe it is going to lead to total heart break.
Many Lesbians or Gays assume if X is at the bar X is a Lesbian or Gay. This is not a great leap of logic, if one was at the SPCA fundraiser, it could be assumed they like animals. One does not immediately assume s/he is an experiment, or going to be the centre piece in a gossip fest.
Sure, there are those who have no emotional connect to people they pick up in a bar. The ‘contract’ is one night only, and move on. But there are others who take emotional steps, who believe they matter; as a person.
Sometimes the Bi-Curious decides that having had sex with X means that X is now Partner. X might have just been cruising. Sometimes the Lesbian/Gay believes the Bi actually loves them, and is destroyed when learning no, you were just an experiment, I’m going back to my Hetero world.
One has to be aware and ask questions deeper than ‘Come here often?’ One has to wonder; Why is this person so anxious to get my clothes off?
When one reduces people to sex toys there has got to be problems
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Post CommentJenna Christiansen
On November 16, 2009 at 9:02 pm
“Why is this person so anxious to get my clothes off?”….I hope everyone does realize why! I do hope that people are thinking, and won’t be so quick to believe someones lies.
L.E.Monist
On November 17, 2009 at 12:19 am
There are a lot of topics we have to expose, this is one of them. Too many people are ‘bi-curious’, and the idea of turning someone into an experiment is totally obnoxious
Karen Gross
On February 15, 2010 at 3:42 am
Good advice for heterosexuals as well.
L.E.Monist
On February 15, 2010 at 11:07 am
Sex should come out of a relationship. This cruising thing often doesn’t end well.