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Is it wrong to be gay

Is it wrong to be gay and like the same sex?

So is It wrong to like the same sex and are people born that way or do they just decide too experiment and than they decide that they like the same sex. Maybe it is just a personal choice and whether it’s right or wrong is for maybe something else that is above too decide. When two people of the same sex get married, should they have the same rights as a man and a woman? I am split on this aspect because there are things that are between a man and a woman and maybe there are things that are between two sexes maybe, who knows.

There are some things that are related to being gay that some people don’t agree with, like an article said before, hitting a gay guy is worse than hitting a woman which I don’t agree with at all because a man is a man no matter what and a woman is a woman no matter what and a man is not built like a woman what so ever. Being gay is find and gay people don’t bother me at all because the way I look at it, they don’t bother me and I don’t bother them and if they want to get married, hey let them go down that road.

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  1. t_morris

    On March 30, 2007 at 4:56 am


    I have nothing against gay people. It’s what they do that I don’t like. But that’s just my opinion. I hope this comment doesn’t offend anyone, but that’s just how I feel.

  2. poet

    On July 19, 2007 at 1:14 am


    the Bible condemns homosexuality,God created man and woman for companionship,fellowship and Love. I do not intend to pass judgment, just to point out that God created all people, being homosexual is however a choice.(for those who disagree I would like to point out that I have a bisexual sister, and she stated freely that she chooses to be so I am not just saying this myself) God doesn’t make our choices for us because he gave us free will.At the same time, God gave us a mind as well,our consciences, and with both God gave us wisdom to know right from wrong.

  3. Butchie

    On May 4, 2008 at 9:33 pm


    How Legalizing Gay Marriage Can Benefit Society

    Check out the paper I wrote above and always remember. ‘Ye who is without sin cast the first stone.’

  4. Rock Hard or Die Trying

    On May 18, 2008 at 10:18 pm


    i was raised that a man and a women should be together. and i do believe that it is the way things are suposed to go.. but the way people are today has changed.it is a sin to be gay. and it states it in the bible. it also says not to judge people so so we listen to one thing and not the other…besides some people are born gay and others are gay because of what they have been through. some are molested by someone and ends up gay. i say who are we to judge someone for who they love.. is it less love because its with someone of the same sex? what is the meaning of marriage? so people have to break it down to find a reason for someone else not to be able to love one another. to spend the rest of their lives devoted to one person and living as one.. soon we will all be dressing the same and thinking the same just because someone else says it’s wrong.. love is love. once we accept ourselves we can accept eaachother.. i am bi-sexual and i have lost alot of “friends” because i came out. i say dont point out what everybody else is doing wrong focus on yourself..

    peace and love

  5. Optimus Prime

    On October 23, 2008 at 9:31 pm


    What up!! i am currently a senior in highschool and i have alot of friends i used to be very homophobic because it was status quo everywhere my step bro is a flaming homosexual he wears make up an the whole shanbang!!! but he is really kool an funny he just happens to b gay, but anyway i hav this friend who is a dude an he is really funny he’s a junior everyone knows him he’s like a skateboard kid with glasses i found out he was gay i was so shocked because u would hav never thought that he was gay in a million years it would be like travis barker coming out gay or somethin it goes to show u that gay people dnt always have to act a certain way to be gay i dnt hav anything wrong with homosexuals because they also happen to be human beings jus like u and I if they were aliens from another planet thtd b different!!! lol

  6. Cinderella

    On December 23, 2008 at 12:04 am


    On my own opinion as an individual who happens to have a relationship with a lesbian, its not wrong to be “HOMOSEXUAL”. Everyone deserves to be happy and to be reunited with someone they love even if its a taboo for others. I believe that God made us equally and HE doesn’t hate HIS child at all who wants to be free and happy. Yeah its kinda awkward for some reason to see people or gay or lesbian going out together and showing affections but If you can feel the happiness and the love that they feel inside their hearts, You will just say “Im happy, and that’s IT!!! I dont need to be afraid. Coz I knw Go accept me for being me.”

  7. the right

    On December 30, 2008 at 2:54 pm


    we have a right..if god truly condems us to hell whats the point inliving? why are we here then in thefirst place? because god wills us to be here i nthe first plce which proves he doesnt hate us my firned told me life is like a test it doenst matter who you are it matter what you do…if you fail that test you go to hell if you pass you go to heaven… my friend just told me its a very ong test and your actions will be decide upon by god

  8. the right

    On December 30, 2008 at 2:55 pm


    i mean your fate mybad people sorry about thast mis type

  9. no-brainer

    On March 6, 2009 at 6:57 pm


    Well. Some guys are born to have a natural attraction to woman…others are born having a natural attraction to guys…vice-versa. You can not control that or change that. You are not God…therefore you DO NOT EVER tell people that being gay or a “queer” is bad. (not that i’m saying you did. i’m just saying). So yeah being gay is not wrong, it’s a way of living. it’s just the choices that god gave us and it’s human nature. if one person is happy with another person of the same gender people should not be prejudiced about that and respect it. we are all the same and just because some of us happen to have a different attraction does not mean anything. don’t worry about people who believe it is wrong because it’s free will and there is no telling how we feel. we can’t control it. don’t listen to people who don’t like gay people because we are all the same. please. don’t let them tell you otherwise because there is nothing wrong with it. :) )))

  10. mmm-hmm

    On May 28, 2009 at 4:21 pm


    being gay if you’re a guy is NOT a choice
    its as little a choice as race, color, and gender.

  11. Jeez

    On August 2, 2009 at 2:30 am


    Can’t wait till the end. Everyone wants to justify their actions. Won’t we all be surprise when he comes and differ our arguments. Keep on going. Heck, even a murderer can justify why they do what they do.

  12. Lawryences

    On November 13, 2010 at 5:26 pm


    I am a guy who is looking very straight but deep inside I always knew from the younger age that I am gay. Because I grew up in a society where they hate homosexual people I ended up hating the as well. Today I’m 19 and the homosexual feelings in me have tramendously increased, because I have my society has unconsciously taught me to hate gay people I ended up hating myself as well. I am battling wiht my feelings today because I’m afraid of what my mother would say, what my brother would say, what my father and the rest of the society would say. It hurts big time.

    Sometimes I wish I was a heterosexual but I can’t – I prayed for years to have sexual attractions to women but it is so imposible. I’m still in the closet but I have learnt to accept myself the way I am and it felt like 100 pounds was been lifted off my shoulders. It is so hard to live in a society that teaches you at a very immature stage what is wrong and what is right while what is wrong to them is part of who you are going to turn out to be when you mature. The age is so imposible to understand and whoever wrote the bible or came up with the idea of mirriage should have done a serious biological investigation of what causes ‘homosexality’. Because the society believe that ‘homosexuality’ is for wrong it becomes hard for them to deal with it. If they had in their minds enough curiosity to find what causes it then today would be a better place for me, but because they failed to do it; I really don’t care who love or hate me as a homosexual person – and whatever they have written in the bible or anywhere is LAW and if you follow the machanics of LAW you will see that it is only designed to make you behave and do things in a certain way. And if there is anyone so judgemental then they might as well give me a stable reason why do they think makes heterosexaulity right and homosexuality wrong. Sorry, I’m just heard enough of ideology, myths and stereotypes of the past that have programmed the minds of today.

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