Comments on: Is it wrong to be gay

By: Lawryences

Lawryences — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 21:26:55 +0000

I am a guy who is looking very straight but deep inside I always knew from the younger age that I am gay. Because I grew up in a society where they hate homosexual people I ended up hating the as well. Today I’m 19 and the homosexual feelings in me have tramendously increased, because I have my society has unconsciously taught me to hate gay people I ended up hating myself as well. I am battling wiht my feelings today because I’m afraid of what my mother would say, what my brother would say, what my father and the rest of the society would say. It hurts big time.

Sometimes I wish I was a heterosexual but I can’t – I prayed for years to have sexual attractions to women but it is so imposible. I’m still in the closet but I have learnt to accept myself the way I am and it felt like 100 pounds was been lifted off my shoulders. It is so hard to live in a society that teaches you at a very immature stage what is wrong and what is right while what is wrong to them is part of who you are going to turn out to be when you mature. The age is so imposible to understand and whoever wrote the bible or came up with the idea of mirriage should have done a serious biological investigation of what causes ‘homosexality’. Because the society believe that ‘homosexuality’ is for wrong it becomes hard for them to deal with it. If they had in their minds enough curiosity to find what causes it then today would be a better place for me, but because they failed to do it; I really don’t care who love or hate me as a homosexual person – and whatever they have written in the bible or anywhere is LAW and if you follow the machanics of LAW you will see that it is only designed to make you behave and do things in a certain way. And if there is anyone so judgemental then they might as well give me a stable reason why do they think makes heterosexaulity right and homosexuality wrong. Sorry, I’m just heard enough of ideology, myths and stereotypes of the past that have programmed the minds of today.

By: Jeez

Jeez — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 06:30:13 +0000

Can’t wait till the end. Everyone wants to justify their actions. Won’t we all be surprise when he comes and differ our arguments. Keep on going. Heck, even a murderer can justify why they do what they do.

By: mmm-hmm

mmm-hmm — Thu, 28 May 2009 22:21:03 +0000

being gay if you’re a guy is NOT a choice
its as little a choice as race, color, and gender.

By: no-brainer

no-brainer — Sat, 07 Mar 2009 00:57:20 +0000

Well. Some guys are born to have a natural attraction to woman…others are born having a natural attraction to guys…vice-versa. You can not control that or change that. You are not God…therefore you DO NOT EVER tell people that being gay or a “queer” is bad. (not that i’m saying you did. i’m just saying). So yeah being gay is not wrong, it’s a way of living. it’s just the choices that god gave us and it’s human nature. if one person is happy with another person of the same gender people should not be prejudiced about that and respect it. we are all the same and just because some of us happen to have a different attraction does not mean anything. don’t worry about people who believe it is wrong because it’s free will and there is no telling how we feel. we can’t control it. don’t listen to people who don’t like gay people because we are all the same. please. don’t let them tell you otherwise because there is nothing wrong with it. )))

By: the right

the right — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 20:55:28 +0000

i mean your fate mybad people sorry about thast mis type

By: the right

the right — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 20:54:07 +0000

we have a right..if god truly condems us to hell whats the point inliving? why are we here then in thefirst place? because god wills us to be here i nthe first plce which proves he doesnt hate us my firned told me life is like a test it doenst matter who you are it matter what you do…if you fail that test you go to hell if you pass you go to heaven… my friend just told me its a very ong test and your actions will be decide upon by god

By: Cinderella

Cinderella — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 06:04:23 +0000

On my own opinion as an individual who happens to have a relationship with a lesbian, its not wrong to be “HOMOSEXUAL”. Everyone deserves to be happy and to be reunited with someone they love even if its a taboo for others. I believe that God made us equally and HE doesn’t hate HIS child at all who wants to be free and happy. Yeah its kinda awkward for some reason to see people or gay or lesbian going out together and showing affections but If you can feel the happiness and the love that they feel inside their hearts, You will just say “Im happy, and that’s IT!!! I dont need to be afraid. Coz I knw Go accept me for being me.”

By: Optimus Prime

Optimus Prime — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:31:01 +0000

What up!! i am currently a senior in highschool and i have alot of friends i used to be very homophobic because it was status quo everywhere my step bro is a flaming homosexual he wears make up an the whole shanbang!!! but he is really kool an funny he just happens to b gay, but anyway i hav this friend who is a dude an he is really funny he’s a junior everyone knows him he’s like a skateboard kid with glasses i found out he was gay i was so shocked because u would hav never thought that he was gay in a million years it would be like travis barker coming out gay or somethin it goes to show u that gay people dnt always have to act a certain way to be gay i dnt hav anything wrong with homosexuals because they also happen to be human beings jus like u and I if they were aliens from another planet thtd b different!!! lol

By: Rock Hard or Die Trying

Rock Hard or Die Trying — Mon, 19 May 2008 04:18:51 +0000

i was raised that a man and a women should be together. and i do believe that it is the way things are suposed to go.. but the way people are today has changed.it is a sin to be gay. and it states it in the bible. it also says not to judge people so so we listen to one thing and not the other…besides some people are born gay and others are gay because of what they have been through. some are molested by someone and ends up gay. i say who are we to judge someone for who they love.. is it less love because its with someone of the same sex? what is the meaning of marriage? so people have to break it down to find a reason for someone else not to be able to love one another. to spend the rest of their lives devoted to one person and living as one.. soon we will all be dressing the same and thinking the same just because someone else says it’s wrong.. love is love. once we accept ourselves we can accept eaachother.. i am bi-sexual and i have lost alot of “friends” because i came out. i say dont point out what everybody else is doing wrong focus on yourself..

peace and love

By: Butchie

Butchie — Mon, 05 May 2008 03:33:00 +0000

How Legalizing Gay Marriage Can Benefit Society

Check out the paper I wrote above and always remember. 'Ye who is without sin cast the first stone.'