Compatibility: How Do I Know That He is The One?
by They say that when we look for the pair, unconsciously choosing people that resemble those that have increased. Men will look for qualities in a woman the mother of their choice, and women do so even without specific, will be considered under a man who somehow reminds of my father … It is also said that those people who like physical traits are those whose similar, are likely to be a long term couple. Look outside, those who are meant to be together for life, have a familiarity, seem to fit.
Perseverance and patience
“I do not believe in love at first sight …” began the story of Luana ‘… but so was my husband. We met at the urging of mutual friends who were convinced that we fit. I just iesisem a painful relationship, and I was in awe looking for a house, I needed to take it from the beginning. We agreed to meet with him more than to get rid of my girlfriend’s mouth. At first glance, I made a great impression. He was a very serious, a little too mature for my taste. But after only a week when we talked for hours on the phone, told me: “Luana, I’m glad that you answered the phone and this time because I want to ask your hand.” I thought he was joking and, until the restaurant paid for the wedding, I could not believe it. How do I know that he is my chosen one? Na gave me a moment.Always encouraged me to believe in us. And I said exactly what I needed to hear: “Trust me, I’m here.” So, through tenacity, patience, the humor in strange situations … day after day he proved that he deserved place near me … “
Complementarity
But they know how you’re chosen? For Dan’s wedding was at first enemy number one.”He could not suffer. Instinctively. I had a reason, what was but I was not. I am quiet, she talked constantly, I’m booked, it was expansive. Simply, when entering a room, and space and grab attention. And, wires would be, come into my office every day. You guessed it, was “our new colleague.” It was bright. I do not know how May I slip unseen through the crowd and she was beautiful … and this seems to be enough to go through life like a swan on a lake pristine quiet. Get on my nerves. As hard as I could not always think about it. This blonde nasty, shallow, which flirted with me breath easily, which drew all eyes, were everywhere: at the gas station or hypermarket, a reception room or office. So I started to love them, actually, “defects”. So I realized that I completely perfect.Know that this story “blind week” is very true. To me, blindly week for three months. How do I know it’s her? I know. She asked me me. He was fine. I chose left. Now my nasty blonde brings one thousand coffee every morning. Wed. There are others. This can only mean that’s her. “
Maybe it did not happen the same with you. Maybe you stayed and you compare the qualities and defects. Maybe you chose that resembles a favorite actor or the first boyfriend in high school or maybe nothing is casual and people really have the chance to unexpectedly find the perfect middle, the one that instinctively we all seek. And even if sometimes wrong our hearts, we must get what is beautiful in all that happens to us. If you met your soul mate, comment and tell us: how do you know it’s him?
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