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Kindness is Never Wasted

An inspiring true story I heard, for sharing
The most difficult thing to give away is kindness, for it is usually returned.

I read about a true story which had happened in 1892 (by the way, where were we?) at Stanford University, USA.

A 18 year old orphan, he was studying in this university.  In order to pay for his fees, he had worked several part time jobs.  One day, his classmate and him both came up with another idea to make ends meet.  They decided to host a musical concert in the campus.  They reached out to the great pianist Ignacy J Paderwski.  The great pianist’s manager demanded a guaranteed fee of $2,000 for the piano recital.  They then had the deal.  The two boys began to work to make the concert a success.  They started to promote this concert and selling the tickets even till the big day itself, but to their disappointment, the sales of the tickets was not successful.  Nevertheless, the performance of Paderewski was still carried out .  The poor boys managed to collect a total of $1,600, with all the effort made.

The two boys learned their good lesson that this was not a good idea at all, it was not as easy as they thought, but they had already promised to pay Paderewski the $2,000, so with great disappointment, they approached Paderewski and gave him the cash amount of $1,600.  At the same time, explained to him their plight.  They requested to defer the payment for the balance $400.

“No”, said Paderewski.  “This is not acceptable”.  The two boys boys were prepared to plead further, but to their astonishment, Paderewski added on “Take back your $1,600″.  “Go back and calculate how much you have incurred for this event, also settle your school fees first, whatever extra you have, will be my fee”.  The two boys were very surprised and touched “But we have promised….” “No, I can’t accept, how can I accept? Just listen to me, don’t be stubborn”.  The two boys thanked this great pianist profusely.

It may sound like a small act of kindness, especially for people who are financially stable. But it clearly marked out Paderewski as a great human being. Why should he help two people he did not even know?

We all come across situations like this in our lives. And most of us only think “If I help him, what would happen to me?” The truly great people think, “If I don’t help him, what will happen to him?”  They don’t do it expecting something in return. They do it because they feel it’s the right thing to do.

Paderewski later went on to become the Prime Minister of Poland. He was a great leader, but unfortunately when the World War began, Poland was ravaged. There were over 1.5 mil­lion people starving in his country, and insufficient fund to help the people.  Paderewski did not know where to turn for help. He reached out to the US Food and Relief Administration eventually. The person in charge was a man called Herbert Hoover, who later went on to become the US President from what I heard.  Hoover agreed to help and quickly shipped tons of food grains to feed the starving Polish people. A calamity was averted.

Paderewski was relieved.  He then went to meet Hoover and person­ally thanked him.   He was surprised with the reaction of Hoover, when Hoover said this “You shouldn’t be thanking me, Mr. Prime Minister. You may not remember this,  but several years ago, you helped two young men went through their darkest moment during their university days, for your information, I was one of them.”

This story is not a fictional one, it’s a true story (though may be slightly distorted). 

The moral of this story is : At times, we may not do the right things, or we may do silly things, or stupid things, but most importantly, we must do the kind things.   What goes around comes around.

My earlier post of kindness :

http://socyberty.com/issues/how-to-do-random-kind-of-kindness/

http://authspot.com/short-stories/a-heart-warming-encounter/

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  1. sgkeat

    On February 17, 2011 at 10:01 am


    Very inspiring. We should do random acts of kindness each day. Even sharing this article is your act of kindness to those who stop by to read, Star. Thank you.

  2. SharifaMcFarlane

    On February 17, 2011 at 10:03 am


    What goes around does come around. I have seen this repeatedly with my own eyes. It makes you live more cautiously and more abundantly.

    You may not get back the kindness from the same person, but you do get it back, with extra goodness.
    Liked this one a lot Star.

  3. Jenny Heart

    On February 17, 2011 at 10:09 am


    Great message! More!

  4. Videomark

    On February 17, 2011 at 10:18 am


    A very uplifting story.

  5. Christine Ramsay

    On February 17, 2011 at 10:23 am


    That is such a beauriful story Star. Kindness should be the basis of all our lives.

    Christine

  6. Uma Shankari

    On February 17, 2011 at 10:39 am


    Beautiful story. Have stumbled it.

  7. anndavey650

    On February 17, 2011 at 11:03 am


    I fully believe in karma and believe that a good dead never goes unpunished… if only more people were like him in the world. Do as much good wherever, whenever and however you can. Brilliant and inspiring post! I thoroughly enjoyed the read.

  8. mtrguanlao

    On February 17, 2011 at 11:20 am


    Inspiring story! This is a good example for many,thanks for sharing this!

  9. Wizard Brown

    On February 17, 2011 at 12:00 pm


    Great moral story!

  10. Jimmy Shilaho

    On February 17, 2011 at 12:00 pm


    A good lesson.

  11. fagina

    On February 17, 2011 at 12:35 pm


    Yeah this is a lesson learnt through experience.

  12. wonder

    On February 17, 2011 at 12:40 pm


    What a touching story this is.We should not expect anything when we give.A very great moral.

  13. jemialbert

    On February 17, 2011 at 12:47 pm


    good share

  14. lillyrose

    On February 17, 2011 at 1:36 pm


    Great story. The boys went on a journey of discovery. We should all help each other without gaining from it.

  15. webseowriters

    On February 17, 2011 at 2:20 pm


    An interesting piece

  16. Jewelstar

    On February 17, 2011 at 2:43 pm


    Starpisces, you wrote this? See how gifted you are in writing and that too in sharing such a wonderful moral story.

    I’m looking out for more………

  17. moneynwealth

    On February 17, 2011 at 3:09 pm


    :) we should all be doing this act of kindness in our own little way …. hoping for a better day to all ……..

  18. Francois Hagnere

    On February 17, 2011 at 3:51 pm


    Love and kindness are the greatest values we should all share. A very inspiring post. Well done again, my friend!

  19. giftarist

    On February 17, 2011 at 8:40 pm


    An inspiring story. I tweeted this one and liked. Great share, Star.

  20. Ruby Hawk

    On February 17, 2011 at 8:53 pm


    It’s the one all can do, rich or poor, we can be kind.

  21. LCM Linda

    On February 18, 2011 at 12:32 am


    A very beautiful and inspiring story. Being kind makes the world better. Star, well-done.

  22. Brewed Coffee

    On February 18, 2011 at 1:17 am


    Stories like this one always get me misty eyed. Such an inspiring story. Yes, kindness goes a very long way. An act of kindness is never forgotten. :-)

  23. J M Lennox

    On February 18, 2011 at 8:59 am


    I absolutely loved this post Star. Very inspiring. Thank you. :-)

  24. Michal Dorcak

    On February 18, 2011 at 4:54 pm


    Interesting story. Never heard it before. Anyway, it was a pleasant reading with good moral (or whatever is the right word for that…).

  25. PR Mace

    On February 18, 2011 at 7:59 pm


    Such a beautiful heartwarming story.

  26. Sharif Ishnin

    On February 20, 2011 at 5:49 am


    You can help me with some cold hard cash right?. Maybe someday i will become PM of some country and help you back? lol. Wow! brilliant story StarP. You have progressed very well. Well done my country gal.:)

  27. Likha

    On February 22, 2011 at 7:41 am


    There is a scarce supply of kindness in the world that is why there is a World Kindness Day. And the suffering in the world may be rooted to this lack. You are so kind to publish something on kindness.

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