Seduction as a Secret Admirer

-Secret Admirer Basics

1.Planning plays a large part of your closeted attraction. Observe the small things that your admiree enjoys (a certain color candy, band etc.) then incorporate them into the small tokens you give them.

2. Suspense is just as important so make sure to balance out your gestures and when (if)you unveil your identity. 3.Make it a grand expression.Don’t worry what others may say, you don’t want to always wonder if you missed out on Mr. or Mrs. Right.

4.Make sure to let them know what it is you like about them and how you feel.

5.Be prepared if things don’t end up in your favor, make this about them and not about you. Let knowing that you gave it your all and made their day in the process be enough. 

The Gestures

• Send a declaration of your interest such as candles, chocolates, their favorite lunch, or a singing gram to your crush at their work or school.
• Send them a map or instructions for a treasure hunt with clues that will lead them to the destination(s) of their tokens (gifts, letters, or clues to who you are)-You can make a one time hunt where you have several clues to find at a time or by sending instructions with a clue for where to find a token each day of the week.
• Make them   a mix CD with songs that express your feelings for them or provides clues of your identity.
• Bake or cook something for them and have it delivered or leave it with a note on their doorstep,desk,etc.
• If you know of something that your admiree needs such as a night away to relax, an appliance,a tune up etc. try to find a solution to help them (i.e. tickets to a spa,pay for a babysitter, a gift card to an auto shop).
• Buy a puzzle and put it together upside down, write a love letter to them then take it apart and send it to them so they can put it together and read it.
• If you plan on unveiling your identity to them, make it a large gesture so that the anticipation doesn’t over-empower the moment.
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