The New Year Resolution That Lasts a Lifetime

At this time of the year I like to look back, reflect on the year that has been. I like to think about what I’ve done for the first time during the year, what new skills I’ve learned, what new people I’ve met, new places I’ve been. I try to keep this reflection positive, not dwelling too much on the things that haven’t worked, or haven’t been as positive as they could be. Life is for living, learning, growing and that is how we should all spend our lives.

This may all sound a bit of a Pollyanna approach. But I started this attitude at a time when I was struggling with things I had little control over. Determined to stay positive I tried thinking about the good things that had happened each day, no matter how small. It became a bit of a game, a distraction from the mentally draining things life was throwing at me. Sleep came more easily when my mind was positive.

When the end of the year came, it therefore seemed appropriate to do the same, to look back on the positive things. What had I actually achieved? The result was surprising, and I’ve been doing it ever since.

My new life long resolution grew from that decision and I have had the same resolution for about ten years now. It’s magical as it can’t really be broken. And it keeps me focused on getting the best out of life.

You see, my resolution is to do as many new things as I can for the first time in the coming year. This may include going places, meeting people, learning new skills, eating a new food, attempting something out of my comfort zone – the list of possibilities is endless.

What Have I achieved in 2009? I will wait till New Years Eve to write my list and do my reflection. But writing on Triond and being involved in the opening of a brand new coffee espresso bar will be right at the top.

Life can be so much fun when we remain open to new possibilities. Is there something you’ve always wanted to try but keep putting off? Maybe this coming year, 2010, will be the time to try it. Forget about all the reasons why you can’t or shouldn’t do it. Just have a go.

At the same time, remain open to new ideas, try things you’d never usually dream of trying.

In the coming year, why not say to yourself, I’ll try as many new things for the first time as I can. Give yourself an adventure that will last the rest of your life. Embrace life by continuing to learn and grow.

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Other articles I’ve written include:

International Arts Festival, Wellington, New Zealand 2010

2010 – Ten Years Into The New Millennium