Valentine’s Day

I have a thing or two to say about Valentines Day.  To all of the ladies who may become angry with me, I say this to you!  However true it may be, that alot of ladies out there are SUPERIOR girlfriends that seem to do everything right Valentines Day should not be an expensively priced day.  I believe that if you are deeply in love with another person, that there is no need to prove how you feel with material things, because if you believe that you have found your soulmate, there a million in one wonderful ways to show someone that you are deeply committed without being ostentactious about how you feel, and the depth that someone means to you.  To all the doting fellas, us ladies appreciate it more than you know, but roses don’t last forever, cards get lost, and sometimes after teddy bear number five or six, and the neighborhoood wondering if all the little kids in the family are raiding your house for presents us ladies have you fellas figured out.  Nothing says I love you more than a sink full of dishes, a house that needs to be cleaned, a grueling place of employment,  and the way you men present flowers, teddy bears, and chocolate to us ladies to keep us quiet so t hat we won’t nag the next time that you are all too perfect to put away laundry, sweep, make dinner, and be the errand guy!  Some ladies want to be pampered by feeling appreciated and helped out around the house instead.  To all the ladies who don’t know what to get your man, think outside the box! Show your man whether you like it or not that you have an interest about the things that make him happy, and get him a gift that supports his hobbies and boosts his confidence.  Guys deserve affection to, and aren’t just there to do the things us ladies may not want to in or outside the house, so try spicing things up.  If you find something to be unappealing and degrading to yourself, don’t make your man do those things to you because chances are, he feels the same way and just does what you would like him to do because he is in the mood to be all about you.  Go to a Victorias Secret store and get something to spoil and flatter yourself that he would like to because chances are without trying to be offenseful to anyone that may feel differently than I do that you will get what you want if he likes what he sees, so get creative!  Nothing says I love you more than the two of you finding original ways to show that your the only for her and she is the only one for you!  Good luck to all of you who can’t figure out what to give the love of their life!  I have one more word of advice!  If you are deeply ion love with someone a little affection, and set time that is designated for eachother and no other does wonders.  I applaud all of you men who cook, clean, wait at the bus stop, and do everything that they can to go above and beyond pleasing their lady just because she is everything to him and he can’t find a better reason.  You should be pampered too!  Happy Valentines Day to all the sweethearts out there!