Are You for Gay Marriages?
Will your support for gay marriages affect your kids views on relationships .Ethics or equality? Are gay people victims or vixens?
I recently read an article about gay marriage that made me stop and think about the future of our nation ant those surrounding it. I agree gay people should have every right to vote, work ,and etc in terms of equality all that good stuff. But there must be a line of ethics.
Marriage is a thing that was created in the bible how can you go against the bibles laws on relationships and at the same time want the blessings from above. The bible says that a man and another man, or a woman and another woman is an abomination. Sodom and gomorrah were destroyed for disobeying these laws not granted the sacred gift of marriage. That’s just my first point.
Are parents not our kids first teachers? If you preach and teach there is nothing wrong with gay marriages or relationships don’t feel bad when your son brings home is new boy/girlfriend. After all you preach that it’s ok giving your children the reason to believe it’s normal. Kiss those grandchildren goodbye. Imagine asking you son who is the fifth grade how’s school going made any new girlfriends this year? His reply ”Nope not this year but there is a lot of really hot guys in 1st period”. Don’t be offended you say gay relationships aren’t harmful and it’s not your concern. I guess it’ll become your concern when your kids see you promoting gay marriages.
As far as equality goes gay people have equal rights to marry just not the same sex. They shouldn’t be gay if they want to get married clearly marriage isn’t for them there is not a place in the bible where it says “shun the sodomites then marry them. As far as ethics go it’s just not right.
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Post Commentblowme
On August 19, 2009 at 2:33 am
the bible can blow me gay ppl havent done anything wrong to u if they want to marry a person of the same se thats their deal not urs its not like they are beating ppl up or molesting them they are just trying to be happy like the rest of the world when there is already so much hate so piss of
Andrew
On August 19, 2009 at 3:03 am
I find it interesting, in looking at your profile photo, that you are black. What I find tragic is that you use the same tired old cliches that were used 60 years ago to keep blacks from marrying outside their race. They are exactly the same arguments–the children, society, the bible.
Look how far you’ve come–you have the right to drink out of the same water fountain as me, you can marry someone of my color, and your vote is just as important as mine. But now you have the unmitigated gall, after figthing so hard for your rights, and knowing the struggle, to deny me mine.
Only a coward would hid behind the same bible that Jim Crow did. Only a hero can understand his own history and fight for another’s right to his or hers. Good luck to you with your self-righteousness. Pray to God your rights don’t disappear.
Lila
On August 19, 2009 at 5:48 am
wow andrew.. very well put!
I just want to say I have two children, a boy and a girl. I teach them to love and respect themselves as well as others, regardless of ethnicity, sex, orientation, appearance, etc.. What I find interesting is that it doesnt create confused and disfunctional children, it creates loving and accepting young minds who will grow into loving and accepting adults – which completes and fulfills my duty as their mother. Perhaps if we all love ourselves and our children and eachother a little bit more and embrace and instill the values of acceptance and non-judgement then we can live happier and more fulfilling lives, rather than being caught up on other people’s sexual preferences.. Theres a lot more to relationships than sex and I think thats what we need to teach our children, in my humble opinion..
Dylan
On August 19, 2009 at 7:05 am
Hey buddy…got a shocker for you…not everyone believes in the bible. The consequence of this is that not everyone should have to follow rules from that terrible book. Since you apparently do believe in the bible, then you should follow those rules. Who the hell are you to tell others to follow rules found in a book of fairy tales that you are confused enough to believe is a legitimate document? Don’t believe dudes should marry dudes?….THEN DON’T MARRY A DUDE!! Keep your philosophy the hell off of anyone else! The government should have no part of enforcing anything that is based solely from a religious standpoint with no basis in reality. Morality is for the individual to decide, not big brother, and definitely not you.
Robert
On August 19, 2009 at 9:55 am
Dylan The only part of your comment I agree with is the last line. which is exactly why the good people of California voted against prop 8. I firmly believe all states should put the issue to the voters unlike mass and VT were activist judges got involved and forced the govt to dictate morality. let the people decide for themselves and I believe it will put and end to this nonsense. Whether or not you believe in the bible is a non issue the fact is marriage is a religious passage whether christian Jew Hindu Arab whatever your religion. So to dismiss the bible simply because you a non believer is ridiculous
John
On August 19, 2009 at 10:31 am
The bible does not govern our country. You can’t pick and choose the passages you want to follow and those you don’t. A lot of us eat pork, a lot of people wear clothes of mixed fiber, there are a lot of people coveting thy neighbors wife… Why does the gay marriage thing stand out so much for you? Afraid cause you might be a little gay??? probably…
Lindsey
On August 19, 2009 at 11:59 am
This is the most ridiculous thing I have ever read. You don’t have to teach your kids that gay marriage is good. You should teach your kids that equality and acceptance is fantastic. By reading this article, I assume you think being gay is a choice. It is not a choice. So by teaching your kids that it is ok to get married if you are in love, regardless of your sex, is not going to turn them gay. It is not a contagious disease. You are an ignorant, close-minded person. You are a typical Christian, I suppose. Just as hypocritical as the rest. I hope your kid turns out to be gay, so you can learn about acceptance and compassion for others.
ball licker
On August 19, 2009 at 1:55 pm
why don’t you lick my balls
Paul
On August 19, 2009 at 3:21 pm
Man there are a lot of haters that posted. Must be all gays. Tisk, tisk. Talk about equality and tolerance. I wonder why you gays go on the defense so fast, especially when someone gives their opinion from a Biblical perspective. I guess the rule around this place is that we must be tolerant and respectful to everyone…..except Christians. Gay marriage is a farce. Really, there’s nothing to gain from it except that gays want “equality”, which they already have. They want children in their marriage so they can teach the kids how to be gay too. They want to teach kids about the homosexual lifestyle in the schools, in fact they already are.
Why do you have to teach a kid how to be gay if gays are supposed to be “born that way?” Seriously, if gays were “born that way,” we would not be having this conservation as it would of been the norm for thousands of years that humans have existed on this planet. It would of been part of the human experience as a norm long before you and I were born. The very fact that not only Biblical teachings, but medical and scientific facts show that being homosexual is not only immorally wrong; it is physically and biologically impossible for humans to be gay. What it is, is simply a behavior system based on one’s experience and environment growing up. Simple psychology. Do the research. It’s out there.
So why do gay’s want to have the “right” to marry. Simple. It would further strengthen and move forward their cause; imposing it on society with a greater force. See, if gays can marry, then gays can have all the rights of a heterosexual couple too. And that includes kids.
Why do gays teach kids in schools; teach their kids at home not only “acceptance” of the gay lifestyle, but to live it too? It is simple really. If gays teach your kids how to be gay, kids being impressionable as they are will simply believe that they must be gay too. So if a boy decides he’s gay at the tender young age of five or six, how much easier is it for a grown gay adult male persuade the kid at the age of 12 to 13 years old to have gay sex with him? After all the kid is gay now so he might as well participate in the lifestyle.
That is right. It is all about the homo sex. All gays and lesbians care about is screwing everything they can lay their hands on. That what it all about really. Equality, tolerance, acceptance, that’s nothing but the smokescreens for the real issue here and that is the homo sex. Never mind the rampant spread of disease and filth that this so called lifestyle brings. As long as they can get their rocks off with your kid, then it is all good.
I’m childfree and of course I am not gay. As a straight male, non parent, this is the way I see it So parents, I think you had better take better care of your kids; because they want them. You all have been warned.
Simply2DIE4
On August 19, 2009 at 3:49 pm
Hi , IAM THE WRITER OF THIS ARTICLE I JUST GAVE MY HONEST OPINON HOING TO GET HONEST REPLIES AND IT LOOKS LIKE I HAVE IF YOU ARE GAY AND YOU WANT OTHERS TO GIVE THEIR OPINON COPY THIS LINK AND EMAIL THEM THE LINK SO I CAN GET EVERYONES VIEWS AND OPINONS ABOUT THE MATTER FOR MY NEXT ARTICLE.I\\\’LL MAKE A DEAL WITH THE GAY PEOPLE THE PERSON WHO GETS THE MOST PEOPLE TO VIEW AND COMMENT THIS ARTICLE I\\\’LL GIVE THEM MY EMAIL AND INTERVIEW THEM AND I\\\’LL HAVE THE ARTICLE PUBLISHED AND PRINTED FROM THE VIEW POINT OF GAY AMERICA.
Simply2DIE4
On August 19, 2009 at 3:51 pm
http://socyberty.com/issues/are-you-for-gay-marriages/
HERE IS THE LINK WHOEVER HAS GETS THE MOST PEOPLE TO COMMENT N SAY U REFFERED THEM I’LL INTERVIEW YOU AND WE’LL HAVE ANOTHER GAY MARRIAGE ARTICLE FROM THE GAY OR STR8 POINT OF VIEW WHOEVER GET THE MOST PEOPLE TO VIEW
alan frances
On August 19, 2009 at 4:33 pm
you sir, are a piece of crap. i am straight and i cannot stand to read your christian propoganda.
the bible ,sir, was and is the most dangerous book ever written.
“judge not, lest ye be judged”
is that not one of yours?
Simply2DIE4
On August 19, 2009 at 4:36 pm
You either don’t have kids or ur not str8.Or u might not b str8 enuff to have kids
jaime
On August 19, 2009 at 4:49 pm
I just can’t help wonder which school in which state is teaching kids to “be gay” i want to see that one in writing. How exactly would one teach that?????????????? That’s great your a straight bible thumper, but marriage is so much more than the bible. What happens when one parent dies, and the other loses their child to society because they were not legally married. This poor kid did nothing wrong! You people make me sick!
Simply2DIE4
On August 19, 2009 at 4:55 pm
: http://socyberty.com/issues/are-you-for-gay-maHOW CAN MARRIAGE BE MORE THAN THE BIBLE IF THE BIBLE IS ITS ORIGIN. I’M THE WRITER THIS IS MY EMAIL ADDY I WANT TO HAVE INTERVIEW ONE OF IF NOT ALL OF YOU FOR MY NEXT ARTICLE THIS IS A CHANCE FOR YOU GUYS TO GET EXPOSED MY EAMIL ADDRESS IS TNEEDMONEY2@YAHOO.COM WHOEVER CAN GET COME UP WITH GOOD TOPICS AND VIEW POINTS WILL BE PUBLISHED .
TA DIE OUT
BradONeill
On August 19, 2009 at 4:59 pm
This is even more ignorant than I was expecting. The Bible isn’t the problem it is the narrow minded fools that choose which parts to judge others by.
I Have Had Enough
On August 19, 2009 at 5:00 pm
People, people, people, calm down. I completely disagree with this article as I have many gay friends who have kids and they are all in straight relationships (the ones that are old enough). Everyone is entitled to their beliefs; but what I have noticed here, is both the author have presented their opinions as fact, without offering any substantial evidence to back it up.
Simply2DIE4
On August 19, 2009 at 5:06 pm
WELL EMAIL ME I CAN INTERVIEW YOU ALL AND HAVE IT PUBLISHED THE RIGHT WAY OR THE WAY U THINK IT SHOULD BE
I Have Had Enough
On August 19, 2009 at 5:08 pm
Sorry I meant to say “both the author, and those that commented, have presented their opinions as fact, without offering any substantial evidence to back it up.”
Theresa Johnson
On August 19, 2009 at 5:53 pm
I am going to state my opinion. I feel that if to men or two women love each other they should be allowed to get married. In the long run if a preacher does not want to do the ceremony they have the right to say no. Fact: Yes the bible is against gay marriage. Fact: the bible may have at one point been based on “God’s words”, but over time parts of the bible were omitted or changed to suit the needs of the church. Fact: They live, breath, and pay taxes just like the est of us. Fact: In telling them that they can not marry it is discriminating against them. If you would like I can continue to throw out facts all day long. Discrimination in any form is still discrimination.
Fuck You and Fuck Jesus
On August 19, 2009 at 6:05 pm
http://socyberty.com/religion/the-christian-states-of-america/ Read my article on why Christian Immorality has not place in Government.
B.S. Kitty
On August 19, 2009 at 6:23 pm
After reading this article, I am ashamed that I even gave you a page veiw for it. Your spelling is as atrocious as your midieval veiws.
Jesus (Hesus)
On August 19, 2009 at 7:14 pm
This guy says that marriage was created in the bible and how can we go against the bible?
Well first how about those Americans who don’t believe in the bible?
2nd what about separation of church and state?
But really we need to thank guys like this for doing so much to educate people regarding God’s Law. I have learned a great deal from these types of people, and I try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind him that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate. However, I do need some further advice from these people, regarding some of God’s other laws and how to best follow them.
a) When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord (Lev. 1:9). The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?
b) I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?
c) I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanness (Lev. 15:19-24). The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offence.
d) Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can’t I own Canadians?
e) I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?
f) A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an Abomination (Lev. 11:10), it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don’t agree. Can you settle this?
g) Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?
h) Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev.19:27. How should they die?
i) I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?
j) My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev. 19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them (Lev.24:10-16)? Couldn’t we just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws (Lev. 20:14)?
LL
On August 19, 2009 at 10:41 pm
you are a sad example of a human being.
Shawn
On August 19, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Unbelievable. There’s about 20 comments on here, most of which is insulting the bible/christianity. I personally agree 100 percent with the author. What people need to remember is that we are not the masters of our lives. We did not create ourselves, god did. So who the hell are we to debate what he says is right or wrong? This is exactly why the whole world is going down the drain. There’s waaaaay too much liberal ideals/bible bashing.
Simply2DIE4
On August 20, 2009 at 10:04 am
HESUS I WANT TO INTERVIEW ON THIS SUBJECT AND HAVE IT PUBLISHED IF THATS ALL RIGHT WITH YOU. I’AM THE AUTHOR I WANTED TO HAVE AN OPINON FROM SOMEONE IN THE GAY COMMUNITY.I HAVE SO MUCH HATE MAIL FROM GAY PEOPLE IT’S NOT POSSIBLE TO HUNT DOWN A GOOD ARGUMENT MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS UP HERE SOMEWHERE FEEL FREE TO EMAIL ME OR JUST POST YOUR REPLY IF YOU WANT TO BE INTERVIEWED OR NOT AND I’LL POST MY EMAILL ADDRESS AGAIN
Simply2DIE4
On August 20, 2009 at 10:06 am
TO THE GAY COMMUNITY- IF SOMEONE HAS A REAL ARGUMENT PLEASE COMMENT.
oldster
On August 20, 2009 at 6:05 pm
Your God, bloke,
(I presume) made us all equal.
Therefore how do we have the right to judge?
Doesn’t the fairy tale insist only he judges at the final moment?
Why are lesbians sodomites?
I agree gays should avoid churches at all costs. They’re full of bigotted people who judge in their Gods name.
Treat all men as brothers and sisters?
Surely then unlesss he encourages incest there would be no procreation at all.
I know gays and believe they have every right to do as they choose, as long as they don’t try and corrupt others.
Unlike rabid christians who try to incite murder of such.
Payge
On August 21, 2009 at 7:44 am
I have a gay brother with aids in San Francisco I will probably never see again in this lifetime.I love him and could not tell him his choice of life and love was wrong. my only concern is that his partner sticks by him until Eric dies.I don’t have a problem with gays wanting to marry because they are human and have to follow what a heterosexual couple has to follow.And not all of us are Christians and follow the bible,regardless of who wrote it or didn’t.
Im not knocking the bible or wanting to offend any real Christians out there. But just races dating out of their color or even having a black or woman president,its just a sign of changing times we all live in..I don’t care if it is another man/woman you love..just be happy because life is to short to waste.I do have gay friends that are couple and think no less of them as i do my heterosexual couples.Its been said those without sin cast the first stone when they wanted to stone the harlot …..we need to remember that everyone is not perfect and everyone will forever have their views on what they believe.Who can honestly say that my view is wrong while yours is right or anyone leaving a comment here is wrong?It simply cant be done……the bible simply doesn’t control everyones life so you cant expect everyone to believe like that.
loualbert
On August 21, 2009 at 1:18 pm
I think that people think mostly about themselves; what they want; what is best for them rather than what is in the best interest of children and society.
I remember now somthing I read a while back about a couple in some country which name escapes me now, that they wanted to name their child Hitler. They were not thinking in accordance to the benifit of the child; they just wanted the child to have an unique name. The problem with this is that it is the child who is going to have to live with that terrible name for his entire life.
People who suppor gay marriage arer only thinking about the rights of the couple; what they fail to see is that the child or the children have no say in the matter. I wonder if the children involved could talk what would they say
Payge
On August 22, 2009 at 12:18 am
But not all gay couples have children……a percentage does I’m sure….but not all do…all they have is each other.
Real American!!!!
On August 26, 2009 at 2:40 pm
I have News for you, Native Americans and indigenous cultures around the world have been practicing marriage for longer than Christianity or the Bible has even existed. And Native American and the other Native Cultures have allowed Gay marriage since marriage was “invented”. In Native American Culture and other indigenous cultures we are known as Two Spirited People, meaning we have both male and female spirits in our being. And we are known as the visionaries, caretakers of the orphans and leader in council. True Traditional Marriage allows Gay Marriage, research it yourself, only you can prove it to yourself. Don’t give me that especially since you are not an Ancient Hebrew, so you haven’t a clue what the Bible says. English is the lowest ranking of languages of expression, not to mention that when you translate from one language to the other, one meaning can not have the same as the other, especially if its from ancient to present time. If marriage were only for procreation, then all infertile and incapable people would be forced to DIVORCE!!!! When the only state to allow gay marriage was MA, the divorce rate among straight people was 50%, and you call gay people bad. Everyone has bad people in their bunch, if all were to judge primarily on the bad that they find of certain kinds of people, then straight marriage wouldn’t be allowed either, there are just as many immoral people percentage wise among straight people as gays if not more. If you don’t allow gay marriage then you should leave America because the people of the land allows it. You are our guests and you most certainly don’t change the rules and morals of the house. If you want to look at an example of gay marriage and children, look at Gregory Maguire, the famous playwright and his family. They are perfect examples that Two Spirited People can be the best Parents!!!!
Real American
On August 26, 2009 at 3:22 pm
And another thing we don’t get to chose if we are gay, we are created that way, you can’t chose what you like and don’t like. It’s like saying you can chose that you like chocolate instead of vanilla, and vanilla is white so therefore it’s pure, and chocolate is dark so therefore it’s bad, therefore you can’t like vanilla if you are moral. That’s exactly what you are saying when you say one can chose to be gay and say that being gay is immoral. Another point, couldn’t gay people be a part of natural population control instead of unnatural war, disease, famine? Another thing, sodomy means anal sex. There are soo many straight sexual partners and couples who practice that, so if you like anal sex, you are a sodomite. Another thing if Sodom was a city of gay people, then why wasn’t it called Sodomy and not Sodom. True Christians in Israel, the motherland of Christianity and the true traditional Christians believe in the following verse:
Romans 14:1-22 Which clearly states that you yourself, if you are therefore supposedly “Christian”, then you would not make laws that pass judgment on others. Hence why in Christianity Government or anything the sort is illegal!!!! Hence why it should be legal to marry the same sex!!!! You are the weakest link, goodbye!!
I was raised Jehovah’s Witness and went to a Catholic University, I’m way to well versed in the Bible, if you are supposedly Christian you’d read the Bible yourself before you get caught in your own hippocratic ways!!!!
quita
On November 23, 2009 at 3:07 pm
In my opinion God gave everyone free will, that is what the bible states and that is what gives me the ability to think before I act and weigh the pros and cons and consequences of my actions before doing something, and you either do the right thing or don’t. With being given free will I believe that means that people do have a choice whether or not they are gay. Not all gays have been gay all their life or confused about how they feel and what they do and don’t like, that is an excuse. I don’t have anything against gays as a whole whatever you do is your business I don’t condemn but I don’t condone either. Throughout the school systems and television they do teach children they being gay is a fad or the right way to live by. Again going back to the bible it is Adam and Eve, when God was creating man’s companion wo walk through life with, he could’ve created another man, that’s what was already created and what he knew best at the time but he took the time out to create woman instead. I do not judge because the bible also states not to get the speck out of thy neighbors eye when you have a plank in yours but I do also know right from wrong. I know a lot of women in particular that are gay or bi sexual just strictly because of curiousity to see what the hype is about or because there were so many in their high school that carried on that lifestyle that they went along with it. That is not being gay that is being a follower, that is not gay by nature. Being gay by nature is being born with incorrect hormones, being born with too much estrigen (men) or too much testoterone (women) both sexes are born with both it is a matter of being born with the correct chemical balance for your sex and that is what causes gays that are truly gay. I think it is a disgrace to human kind, human nature and to the gay community for people to claim gay like its a fashion or the thing to do right now when real homosexuals actually have lots to deal with fightin within themselves, most real gays do not embrace it and grow up confused and unhappy due to the chemical imbalance. I do agree that marraige is holy and sanctified and that goes along with not just same sex but adulterers as well.