Child Support

If there was no such thing as child support; would women be more cautious.  If the government did not get involved, would it force the women to be more responsible?

Is child support a way for the woman to hold on to a man?

Is child support a way for the man to hold on to the woman?

Let’s face it; women are not the only ones that are filing for child support.  There are some men out there in the same boat.

The ultimate decision is up to the woman.  Each time women has unprotected sex, we are taking a chance of becoming pregnant.  Most are living with the MYTH of I can’t get pregnant.  Then to your surprise it happens.  You’re pregnant and the man you slept with no longer wants to be a part of your life or do they won’t to accept the responsibility of a child.

Women are making the choice to have children out of wedlock.  Why aren’t we making the same choice of accepting the responsibility for having the children?

Trying to force a man to take care of his supposedly child, is only hurting the child.

Are you telling the child to call his/her daddy for money?

Are you giving the child false hope that one day their daddy will be a part of his/her life?

Men, this is not letting you off the hook.  If you make the choice to have sex with the woman you are accepting any and all consequences.  Don’t do it and then say the child is not yours.  Take a DNA test before making that comment.  If it turns out to be yours, be a MAN step up and take the responsibility of being a father.

People we must teach our children, that just because your mother and father are not together, we can still come together for his/her best interest.

Women, just because the father of your child decides to move on, don’t make the assumption that the other woman/wife is causing the man to act the way he is acting.

9 times out of 10 the woman is attempting to support the relationship with the child and you (mother) is causing the problems.

Men, just because the mother of your child moves on, don’t throw in the towel and say well, he is there he should be taking care of your child.  No, he/she is still YOUR child.

We have to teach the next generation of leaders to be different.

Another thing I can’t understand is, why the government forces the man them back, because the mother decided to get on welfare.

 That is a very unfair situation.  If the mother or father chooses to run and get on Food stamps, Medicare, AFDC, housing, or whatever, they should be put on a limited time frame for getting it together.  The Government is only handicapping the able-bodied men/women that they are allowing to be on assistance.  This is another reason our taxes are constantly increasing.  Let’s force some of the men/women that have been on assistance for over 3 or more years to get out and get a job.

I know this is a touchy subject for men and women.  However, we must learn to take responsibility and stop hurting the children.

Women give your son/daughter a reason to be even more proud of you.  Let them be the one to say “My dad didn’t anything, my mom worked hard and made sure I never went without.”

 Men give your son/daughter a reason to be even more proud of you.  Let them say “Even though my mom and dad were not together, my dad never missed a moment in my life.”

We have to break the cycle! Doing so is up to us and not the Government.