Men were the sole breadwinners of the family in the olden days. Today women also go out to work and support the family. Women have to do the household works as well. They are definitely overburdened when they have to do household works alone at home. Well, do men have to share the house hold chores?
Man sharing household chores when the woman is working: Men were the sole breadwinners of the family in olden days. Today things have changed and more women are into full time employment as they want to share the financial responsibility of the family. When both husband and wife work, it helps them to raise their standard of living. Nevertheless the women feel overly burdened as they have to do all the household chores too. They will be happy if their men come forward to share the household chores with them. Have today’s men understood this? Or are they still living with their egos?
Man sharing house works when the woman is not working: Well, I hope you ‘ll accept that the men should help their working women in the household chores. Do men have to help them in household chores if they they are house wives? Well, it depends on the individual man. A house wife may think why the man should not share the household works when he is living in the house with her. She may think that even if she is not the earning part, it doesn’t matter, as at the end of the day she is taking care of the home, family kids etc. Why should the gender dictate the jobs in the house? On the other hand the man may feel overly burdened if he has to work at home too; well we can leave the option to the man in this case.
How to share the household chores between man and woman?: Today’s men are ready to share the domestic works along with the women. How would the women share the works with the men? Well, they can sit with their men, discuss and divide the duties between them. There are some household works that are meant for men. For instance men can carry the empty gas cylinder, fix the tube light, fans and put the heavy things on the shelves. Men in general would not want their wives to do heavy house hold work.
Both the husband and wife should sit down, discuss and divide the duties. There will always be some things that the wife hates doing and the husband doesn’t mind taking care of and vice versa. They can create a chore chart and stick to it. Above all nothing should be strict, both can adjust and share works according to their moods and availability of time.
· Even if the woman is not working the man can help her in household works if he can. If he really feels overly burdened he can choose to rest at home.
· They can choose the work they want to do and create a chore chart.
· If the man is earning decent income and he is already working hard outside home, he can employ a person to help his woman in the household works. If he can afford to employ more people to take care of all household works, he can let his working woman rest fully at home.
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