Do You Believe in Committing The Sexual Act Before Marriage?
I consider this topic as an open discussion to share our points of view on this related topic as I would be going for some details in the article body. there are so many people who agree on committing the sexual act with their partner before marriage while others disagree as they follow some rules mentioned in their religions preventing them from committing such act.
Well, as I have just mentioned in the title-description that this article is an open area for sharing views and comments pertaining the consequences provided with the commitment of such an act.
I have basically shared my views with some of the friends few hours back that I thought of sharing it here with all of you as we all need to know the consequences of committing such a sexual act.
There are those who believe on committing the sexual act with their partner before the marriage to ensure trustworthiness as well as commitment to the other significant as this act is getting somehow common among the current generations. While others disagree upon committing such a sexual act as they consider the sexual act against their religions as they proved their claims with verses from the Bible as well as the Quran.
In accordance to my point of view, i don’t basically believe in committing such a sexual act before marriage… I believe that, committing such a sexual act before marriage is a personal crime that would definitely bring chaos as well as doubts in the relationship between the partners.
As a matter of fact, any relationships before marriage are not 100% secure because we don’t really know whether or not we are gonna be together! Things might change in between as nothing can prove the healthiness of the ongoing relationship before marriage…the same thing goes to the sexual act before marriage! How could we know whether the person we committed sex with is the same person who we are getting married with?
It is kinda a chaotic scenario indeed! Imagine committing the sexual act with each person we had a relationship with, what kind of a life that could be! Committing the act with each person we had an affair with would definitely drive us insecure, because committing this act accorded to be a sign for long relationship. But what if this relationship didn’t go well?
surely we will cry and be devastated for some time and yelling to never fall in love again, but when we find ourselves in love again, we would forget the past and be uncontrollably attached to this new love that we would do anything to proof our love to the significant other & we might definitely go for that act again, and the same scenario might happened over and over!
Such a cycle would provide so much chaos and it might even lead us to lose our confidence not only in ourselves, rather, in everyone around else.
So, what do you people think? do you agree with committing the sexual act before marriage?
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Leonardo davinci Evans
On November 25, 2009 at 1:57 pm
Since the bible says that people are not given to one another to marry in heaven, its a moot point. Clearly, to be the best you can be for your God, you would not engage in sensual activity….at all.
smiley EL
On November 25, 2009 at 11:46 pm
thanks for dropping by,,,
yeah i do agree with you that we need to do the best we can to please God at the end…
Leonardo davinci Evans
On November 28, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Oh Smiley, I was being ironic…..Actually, unless a God comes down to speak to you directly, what you are actually doing is what pleases the minds of men who …there they go again, speaking in the place of God again and claiming they have his Holy Book. To love, to have desire, to experience sensual activity is natural, beautiful, and good. One merely has to be careful to experience it with the one who is sincere and clearly has only the best of intentions.
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