Comments on: Does everything happen for a reason?

By: Laurie

Laurie — Sat, 01 Jan 2011 18:16:30 +0000

What could be the reason for after 20 years running into an old boyfriend and then three weeks later finding out he died suddenly from a heart attack? Can’t get it out of my mind for some reason

By: Ram

Ram — Wed, 27 Oct 2010 22:50:35 +0000

I totally agree that everything does happen for a reason. I have been through the worst and had many good and bad experiences. I dnt think we realise this when we are young, atleast not until we cross our 30s. Today when i have nothing to work for or worry about and I know myself, I sat and gone through all my up and down. they all connect and Its clear.Everything took place to make me, the person sitting and thinking wisely what life has given me until i saw myself in the mirror. Bad things gives us strength and good things memories to cherish or some might say to compensate the bad…

By: Kevin

Kevin — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 04:51:47 +0000

I was thinking tonight about why things happened to me.. It seems that everything goes wrong in my life… I was bummed… Actually I was very depressed… Then I had a light bulb moment… Suddenly a light went off, and I realized that maybe I had been looking in the wrong direction.. I mean I am not a religious kinda person, nor do I believe that god is the sole one… But I have to admit that I had a real thought tonight… All my life has been trial and crap… every step of my life has had trouble and I wondered why… I wondered and wondered, and never could seem to put my finger on what or why I was meant to be… then I was talking to a friend of mine and she told me she had a cancer tumor on her kidney… And boom the light went off… I am good at people, good at just talking to and being a friend to people… Now I get it. I think I am supposed to be a friend to people in trouble, and unless I had all the trouble in my life I would of never understood why… it was my destiny to bear problems and be subject to ridicule so that I might be able to understand someone elses pain, or trouble… it has to be … because I just missed it I didnt get it.. until now… thank you who ever you are and or what ever you are for letting me see my purpose I know now what I need to do….

By: Nico Bellik

Nico Bellik — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 20:00:18 +0000

Everything does happen for a reason. The reason is that the universe is random. Life is chaos. Unfortunately, some people can’t cope with that reality and make up banal platitudes to recite like some kind of mantra. Stand up on your own two feet, throw away the crutches, make your own future and take responsibility for your own actions.

By: RJ

RJ — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 10:07:03 +0000

Yes, everything does happen for a reason. In the short run you won’t see it, but in the long run you will. Like the people who come in and out of our lives. They change our paths in which we go down. Count the number of what ifs in our lives, but due to the people we come across those what ifs never happened.

By: Heid

Heid — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 15:59:49 +0000

Maybe we believe that thing happen for a reason because we are affraid to face this wild, dangerous and unfair universe. No reason in nature, just try to survive dude

By: bg

bg — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 05:34:29 +0000

why would my dog run away for a reason. i loved that dog it was like my best friend.

By: stephanie sinclair

stephanie sinclair — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 05:25:23 +0000

I’m going out with a guy I really don’t like and I don’t want to be mean and dumb him whats the reason he likes me I no I will never marry him my friends even say you guys dont seem like the couple who would get together well its just high school crush it’s not like its love.

By: Jones

Jones — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 02:32:12 +0000

Everything happens for a reason?

Then why did God want my sister to be carjacked and set alight.. for 50 dollars, and that the attacker never to be found, then a few months later she finds a tumor in her ovaries and is never able to have children. everything does not happen for a reason

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 10:58:05 +0000

I’m a true believer in everything happens for a reason, although at times something bad happens, so in turn I question my own belief. But i have realized when you look at the small pictures and/or what’s just going on in the moment, it may seem like there’s absolutely no reason for what is happening….your life could have done with out. But when you look at the big picture you should realize that in the grand scheme of things that there really was a reason for that to happen.