Comments on: Domestic Violence and The Cycle of Abuse http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/ Mon, 20 Feb 2012 08:19:38 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: SharifaMcFarlane http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-554456 SharifaMcFarlane Mon, 25 Apr 2011 01:26:57 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-554456 Well-researched writing Chris. Well-researched writing Chris.

]]> By: Michal Dorcak http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-361006 Michal Dorcak Wed, 06 Oct 2010 09:11:21 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-361006 Very interesting and well-written article. This topic really needs to be addressed. I also agree that views on what is domestic violence or not may differ. Very interesting and well-written article. This topic really needs to be addressed. I also agree that views on what is domestic violence or not may differ.

]]> By: Minister Marlene http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-337714 Minister Marlene Sun, 05 Sep 2010 06:09:22 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-337714 Another type of abuse is spiritual abuse which I have been a victim off in churches and was in a Christian cult. I need to write an article on Spiritual abuse which is also swept under a rug. If we continue to write on these topic people will become more aware. They can do nothing if they don't know about it, that's why articles like yours are much needed. Thank you. Another type of abuse is spiritual abuse which I have been a victim off in churches and was in a Christian cult. I need to write an article on Spiritual abuse which is also swept under a rug. If we continue to write on these topic people will become more aware. They can do nothing if they don’t know about it, that’s why articles like yours are much needed. Thank you.

]]> By: Minister Marlene http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-337710 Minister Marlene Sun, 05 Sep 2010 06:02:08 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-337710 I appreciate this article. It is good to know the history of abuse. I wrote an article on domestic violence in the church. And what I want people to do is stand up for those who need help, in this area. And stand up right now. Immediately begin to do all that is nessasary to help and let go of personal shame. When we are ashamed and stigmatize others we damage so many people. We must rediscover our humanity. Some folks think I am tough on people but I have been abused physically and mentally. Thank God for Jesus, because that was a living hell. I don't want anyone to suffer this way and I never mince words. Every is stuck on the fact that God is love and that we should tip toe around these issues. But that is not true. We need to educate people and speak out. Urging others to show the love of Christ by firmly stating the issues and calling people to repent from allowing domestic violence to continue. The laws need to be tougher too. DV affects men as well as women. I appreciate this article. It is good to know the history of abuse. I wrote an article on domestic violence in the church. And what I want people to do is stand up for those who need help, in this area. And stand up right now. Immediately begin to do all that is nessasary to help and let go of personal shame. When we are ashamed and stigmatize others we damage so many people.

We must rediscover our humanity. Some folks think I am tough on people but I have been abused physically and mentally. Thank God for Jesus, because that was a living hell.
I don’t want anyone to suffer this way and I never mince words.

Every is stuck on the fact that God is love and that we should tip toe around these issues. But that is not true. We need to educate people and speak out. Urging others to show the love of Christ by firmly stating the issues and calling people to repent from allowing domestic violence to continue. The laws need to be tougher too. DV affects men as well as women.

]]> By: PR Mace http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-222063 PR Mace Mon, 11 Jan 2010 10:33:27 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-222063 You are so brave to share this, thank you for this outstanding article. You are so brave to share this, thank you for this outstanding article.

]]> By: Chris Stonecipher http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-200648 Chris Stonecipher Mon, 30 Nov 2009 01:25:32 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-200648 Hi sweetrose, Yes, the is more of a focus on reporting domestic violence issues now than in the past. Thank you for reading and commenting on my article. Blessings, Chris Hi sweetrose,
Yes, the is more of a focus on reporting domestic violence issues now than in the past. Thank you for reading and commenting on my article.
Blessings,
Chris

]]> By: Chris Stonecipher http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-200646 Chris Stonecipher Mon, 30 Nov 2009 01:23:29 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-200646 @QuinMonty86, I am so sorry you had to experience this. I am glad you had the courage to leave. You are a strong woman. You did what it takes to leave an abusive relationship and it sounds like you did a wonderful job raising your boys. God led you in the right direction. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Blessings to you, Chris @QuinMonty86,
I am so sorry you had to experience this. I am glad you had the courage to leave. You are a strong woman. You did what it takes to leave an abusive relationship and it sounds like you did a wonderful job raising your boys. God led you in the right direction. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
Blessings to you,
Chris

]]> By: QuinMonty86 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-199521 QuinMonty86 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 04:25:30 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-199521 Chris, My first marriage was a nightmare of emotional and physical abuse. 30 years later I still bear the emotional scars. My husband and his twin brother watched their father abuse their mother and so the cycle continued on both myself and my sister-in-law. I got out before my son was born or it might have continued on through him. I married a wonderful, loving, caring man who raised my boys as his own. They both are in loving relationships without the threat of violence ever rearing it\'s ugly head. It takes a strong woman to break away and a strong support system to shelter her and keep her away. Thank God I made a better choice the second time around. Chris,
My first marriage was a nightmare of emotional and physical abuse. 30 years later I still bear the emotional scars. My husband and his twin brother watched their father abuse their mother and so the cycle continued on both myself and my sister-in-law. I got out before my son was born or it might have continued on through him. I married a wonderful, loving, caring man who raised my boys as his own. They both are in loving relationships without the threat of violence ever rearing it\’s ugly head.
It takes a strong woman to break away and a strong support system to shelter her and keep her away. Thank God I made a better choice the second time around.

]]> By: sweet rose http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-192811 sweet rose Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:11:14 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-192811 this is quite a well-researched writing, and a very informative one. i believe that domestic violence aren't rare in the past. it's just that it's only now that people are more open to discuss it so more cases are reported. this is quite a well-researched writing, and a very informative one. i believe that domestic violence aren’t rare in the past. it’s just that it’s only now that people are more open to discuss it so more cases are reported.

]]> By: Chris Stonecipher http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-192455 Chris Stonecipher Mon, 16 Nov 2009 23:12:24 +0000 http://socyberty.com/issues/domestic-violence-and-the-cycle-of-abuse/#comment-192455 Thank you Nathan. Another reason for people reporting such as by-standers in not so much as wanting to help but some report because of noise level which they consider a "nusence". Thank you Nathan. Another reason for people reporting such as by-standers in not so much as wanting to help but some report because of noise level which they consider a “nusence”.

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