Enter The Mind of The Bully
by Let us find out what play on the mind of the bully. What drives them to bullied other people whom they find as the one with weakest connection?
person becomes a bully based from his/her experiences in life. Let say Mark is constantly being bullied for being small, thin and for having eccentric behavior. So he makes a promise to his self from the day he gets bullied by his other mates he would never allow other to make a fun of him. This is what a bully mind think…
1. I bully because I want to compensate to my loss for being bullied before and want revenge.Pray that you never come cross my path and you would ever be sorry for awakening my attention. Showing aggressive behavior in violent manner is my forte sometimes show it in hideous way you do not even know you are in the process of being bully.
2. I bully because I like to test other people courage on how far they could react on my bullishness. If they don’t react I would continue to bother them. The more they show they are afraid and fear me, the more fun and excitement I feel to pursue them.However I also get tired if the person never show any reaction for a longer period I would stop. If the one being bullied over react on my bullishness they are prone to suffer more because the more they show they are affected the more satisfaction I feel to ruin their lives.
3. I bully because I like to make it appear as all knowing and superior than other people. It is my way to become popular and never like other to over shadow my image. The stronger bullies I become the more people would recognize me and become so afraid of my existence.
4. I bully to proclaim supremacy over the weakest species that is born like invertebrate. They seem to have no backbone they should thank me because I only teach them to be brave. Over reaction on my bullishness it only means I am effective.
5. I bully because this world would be a boring place to live without me and if all am always kind and considerate this world would be lack of challenges and luster. Just imagine all the people treat and respect each other with no contradiction. What a boring world to live?
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Post CommentBriannaMorgan
On August 5, 2010 at 1:29 pm
This is a really great article. When I was a child in school nothing was done about bullying. With in the last couple of years schools have began to put a stop to this and this is a good thing.
Aileen Tecson
On August 5, 2010 at 1:41 pm
brianna,
It really need to stop as bullying is like an infection if not fully prevented it would likely spread like wildfire affecting the mind of the peaceful one..thanks
webseowriters
On August 5, 2010 at 2:51 pm
Very funny pic
yes me
On August 5, 2010 at 7:38 pm
What don’t kill you will make you stronger…. so they say, but bullying is a bad way for the victim, and the perp, cheers
PARAM
On August 5, 2010 at 8:58 pm
Great one….funny pic.
Aileen Tecson
On August 5, 2010 at 9:46 pm
@webseo,
thanks
@matt
very well said, matt
@psingh,
lol..that really clearly show the differences between the two.
LCM Linda
On August 5, 2010 at 10:10 pm
Interesting article. Really sorry for the bullies and their victims.
Eunice Tan
On August 5, 2010 at 11:02 pm
Well written article about bullying.
carissimi
On August 5, 2010 at 11:05 pm
very interesting
wonder
On August 5, 2010 at 11:09 pm
Really well posted.
Anuradha Ramkumar
On August 5, 2010 at 11:56 pm
Gr8 article. I haven\’t bullied anyone nor was bullied.
Aileen Tecson
On August 6, 2010 at 1:49 pm
@lcm linda, @eunice, @carissimi, @wonder, @anuradha,
Thanks guys for all of your comments
Lipstick
On August 7, 2010 at 2:50 am
this is nice one
giving us an insight so we may know how to deal with this kind of predator
Aileen Tecson
On August 7, 2010 at 6:22 am
hi lipstick,
Yeah and knowing their reasons one could prevent to avoid them never ever give them a chance to belittle anyone..
Starpisces
On August 7, 2010 at 11:56 pm
I like this!
Some bully people because they are being bullied by stronger ones, and they don’t know how to bully back, so bully the weaker ones to de-stress themselves. I have come across these people, I despise them.
Aileen Tecson
On August 8, 2010 at 6:56 am
bully is very annoying they are everywhere someone other wish to escape them or either face them literally..thanks
Shamyl
On August 11, 2010 at 8:33 am
Simply wonderful post. Loved the pic. Very interesting read.
Rhodora Bande
On August 21, 2010 at 10:45 pm
Great title. Very creative. Glad I’m now at this stage where no one can bully me.
anythingAnytime
On August 25, 2010 at 11:31 pm
This article reminds me of myself in the past.
s j tubrazy
On August 30, 2010 at 9:45 am
took me in childhood great satuff
Aileen Tecson
On August 31, 2010 at 1:30 pm
thanks sj tubrazy
mysocalledlife
On September 1, 2010 at 12:51 pm
this is all part of life, you get bullied and somehow you bully someone else either deliberately or not, we just have deal with it one way or the other
Aileen Tecson
On September 1, 2010 at 7:40 pm
hi mysocalledlife,
I always know bully people even you like to live out of the limelight they seem have a way out to ruin any life. Very well said friend
Raj the Tora
On September 1, 2010 at 10:45 pm
Hahaha, I loved the last point. Without bullies, how to train our kids about the rudeness that they are about to face in life. Excellent insightful travel into a bully’s mind
pippe vonkuhne
On September 3, 2010 at 1:22 am
I agree with Raj the Tora, an interesting insight into the bully’s mind. I’m always bewildered by bullying behaviour. Thanks Aileen
Aileen Tecson
On September 4, 2010 at 6:01 am
@ Raj and pippe,
thanks you guys you find it helpful
Thewoodlandelf
On September 7, 2010 at 12:45 am
Very true points. People bully others in effort to hide their own insecurities. That’s why they always choose to pick on people weaker than themselves. A bully only bullies someone else because secretly they are afraid of being bullied themselves.
Aileen Tecson
On September 9, 2010 at 6:44 am
Woodlander,
A bully hide behind their own mask..thanks
cherry
On October 2, 2010 at 2:13 am
I agree bully become what they become because they become victim too but in extreme cases bullying bring terror and death in some victim the worst done by thrill seeking person with no life of their own..