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Hate Dehumanizes

Hate dehumanizes. Hateful words may not break your bones but it can break your heart and cause more damage than broken bones ever will. It can break friendships, marriages, and turn brother against brother.

 

Hateful words may not break your bones but it can break your heart and spirit, which takes a lot longer to heal than broken bones. It can break friendships, marriages and turn brother against brother. Almost two thousand years ago James wrote an entire chapter of the Bible about the tongue, “a restless evil full of deadly poison.” Most of us have had words said about us that deeply damaged our reputations or maybe cost us a job and friends. Its not the passing words of anger that cause the most damage but in the creation of distorted words of half truths and lies.

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We see websites that distort the truth and are full of hate. Some people listen to this hate mongering that is filled with poison and evil mindedness. They become so immersed in hate that they can’t distinguish truth from fiction. Just one example of what happens, In May, James von Brunn walked into the Holocaust Museum and killed a guard. He was stopped before he could kill others. Von Brunn had a long history of participation in groups that feed on hatred of Jews. He maintained a website which spewed poisonous words of venom. Venom that sent him on his quest for blood.

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Language shapes reality. When Jews, Muslims, or illegal immigrants or any other minority are spoken of in a dehumanizing way, when they are tarred with the brush of “other” we are only a step away from violence. Words have power. We can use them to create words of truth and goodness or we can allow our tongues to be infected with deadly poisons. We can use words to spread truth or we can use them to create malice and hatred.

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We can fight evil by paying attention to words in which we surround ourselves, by what we read , listen to and watch. Do the words we listen to dehumanize others, are they more interested in spreading hate and fear than truth? If so we need to turn off the computer, TV, or radio, put away the book and discuss the truth based on facts, not half truths and innuendo.

We combat hatred by watching our own tongues. We can ask ourselves three questions before we pass on any information. Is it true? Will it help anyone? Do we want the whole world to know we said it? If we can answer yes to all three questions then it’s safe to pass it along. Otherwise, we could be guilty of more harm than we can imagine. Lies and half truths breed hatred and evil. We can turn away and refuse to participate. It’s up to us to promote the kind of world we want to live in.

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  1. clay hurtubise

    On November 26, 2009 at 11:35 am


    Ruby, thanks for that.
    Clay

  2. Ramalingam

    On November 26, 2009 at 11:37 am


    An excellent article to eschew from hatred and to build up harmony among the human beings.Thanks for sharing.

  3. svishnugopal

    On November 26, 2009 at 11:47 am


    it is always good to build good relationships between each other..

  4. Frances Lawrence

    On November 26, 2009 at 11:54 am


    A powerful piece of writing. We have to find ways to develop greater understanging of difference.

  5. Starpisces

    On November 26, 2009 at 11:54 am


    good write, but the picture make me feel sad…

  6. Brenda Nelson

    On November 26, 2009 at 12:03 pm


    It starts simply enough with the slip of words by a parent, and thus the child either learns to hate, or is put in a place where their self esteme is weakened.
    We have to realize that kids minds are often more sensitive than we understand, and hate is a learned behavior.

  7. Aiyanna

    On November 26, 2009 at 12:34 pm


    I certainly believe in this and have gone through this so many times, it kills you from inside!!! I always remember what my mum told me:
    Words and glass must be handled with care, words once spoken and glass once broken can never be put back to make it whole again…

  8. chitragopi

    On November 26, 2009 at 12:46 pm


    Not anyone else’s words can express this in a better way.

  9. Kate Smedley

    On November 26, 2009 at 12:48 pm


    Very well written article Ruby, hate does dehumanise and as Anna said above, it does kill you from the inside. Some good advice about whether or not to pass information on. It’s interesting you should mention the Bible as gossip is seen as sinful. A thought provoking read.

  10. Francois Hagnere

    On November 26, 2009 at 1:01 pm


    Hate and intolerance are crimes, there is no word to say how horrible things these two words represent. It is true that it is up to everyone of us to make this world a better one and above all a happy one! Thank you Ruby.

  11. sandie

    On November 26, 2009 at 1:24 pm


    so very true your words are full of wisdom and truth that we as humans never stop to think about or the after math of someones feelings later, enjoyed your story.

  12. MystiquE

    On November 26, 2009 at 2:11 pm


    very good write!

  13. Snooky

    On November 26, 2009 at 2:27 pm


    Do unto others as you would have others do unto you..
    If we all lived by that one rule, think how nice the world would be.

  14. Guy Hogan

    On November 26, 2009 at 3:04 pm


    Words can do great harm or great good. They are powerful tools for good or evil. This has been proven time and again. History is full of examples of this truth.

  15. abhishek40914

    On November 26, 2009 at 3:18 pm


    good article, hope many of us learn from it, like it is said,a sharp tongue once hurt will never get things back to normal

  16. Themax

    On November 26, 2009 at 3:57 pm


    Hi ruby,very excellent written,Thanks for sharing :)

  17. ken bultman

    On November 26, 2009 at 5:02 pm


    To speak kindly does not hurt the tongue.

  18. Abby Rose

    On November 26, 2009 at 6:26 pm


    As always Ruby, you have a wonderful piece!

  19. AlmaG

    On November 26, 2009 at 8:02 pm


    I wish people would be more sensitive to what they say or do to others… Great article :)

  20. Moses Ingram

    On November 26, 2009 at 8:23 pm


    Hi Ruby, To say that I agree with you would be an understatement. I have spoken out against hatred for years and you have done a superb job here. I hope that many people will read it and I will promote it any way that I can. Thank you.

  21. Shirley Shuler

    On November 26, 2009 at 10:34 pm


    A very powerful piece, Ruby. I will pass this along!

  22. Teves

    On November 27, 2009 at 12:27 am


    Nice work…

  23. PR Mace

    On November 27, 2009 at 3:55 pm


    If love is a powerful emotion then hate is even more so, but hate causes much more damage. Excellent, Ruby just purely excellent writing.

  24. Leonardo da Vinci E.

    On November 29, 2009 at 2:59 pm


    When a child is born his first psychological condition is expressed by the I.D. which is desire to be fulfilled by any means necessary. It is a motivation that the developing mind must be taught to control and moderate. If the parent is skillful then we have the development of a responsible and empathetic citizen. If the parent is neglectful, abusive, or irresponsible then we have the development of sure trouble; And even more so dependent on the natural temperment and individuality of the personality.

  25. Dragonologist

    On December 2, 2009 at 4:07 pm


    What you have written here is a very valuable message and also very beautiful if it is properly applied. I’ll be watching what I say from now on, though I do already try to live by the “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all” rule. I’ll be sure to check out any of your other articles as soon as I have the time.

  26. Judy Sheldon

    On December 2, 2009 at 10:25 pm


    We have a responsibility to speak with compassion and our actions will be sure to follow. Thanks Ruby.

    BTW, How much would you charge to send me some hawthorn berries?

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