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*How to determine if your boyfriend is married?

It may take a person a week or maybe a month to find out if the man/woman they’re dating is married. Their track records will eventually catch up with them. If you take a calendar and mark down the times the person cannot go out on dates with you or they’ll be nights he’ll not call or he’ll call and say something has come up and he will not be able to make it for your scheduled date and this happens often. This is one of the first signals to call your attention that something isn’t exactly right with him. If you take notice, a married man will always have excuses they have to work or they have an out of town relative coming into town or their mother and dad needed them to do something for them and they’ll not be available to go out on the date and their calls may be limited while these relative are here.

*Excuses my the number:  

These type people always have excuses and they come on as sincere and fully trusting. Take note too, they’re never available on the week-ends or holidays or if you ask them to go some place at the spur of the moment. Also notice the nights that he schedules dates with you, they’ll probably be during the week and then he has to always leave relatively early because he has to work in the morning. Have you tried to call him up and suggest the two of you go out for a quick bite to eat after work or some friends have invited you to a get together at their house for a card game? I’ll bet this doesn’t work either does it…there’s always an excuse why he cannot make it? Does he not answer his phone lots of times?

Has he given you his address or invited you to his place? Have you tried finding his address in the phone book, and if so, did you ride by to see what type actions were going on at his home? Is he protective of his cell phone to ensure you do not get your hands on it? Have you tried to call him shortly after he leaves you…only to find ”no” answer. Is he available at the snap of a finger whenever you call him? Are there times he will not answer his phone? Has he given you his phone number at work…and have you tried to called him there? Does he shy clear of local restaurants and shopping malls with you?

*Summation:

These type men are a dime a dozen and they prey on women for dates and sex only. They normally have one excuse after another and there’s always a reason for not introducing you to their friends and siblings or their mother and dad. They never are extravagant with how much they spend for dates…they try to eat at fast food places and avoid fine dining areas. If they take you to a movie, it’s usually to a matinee (where the cost is minimal) in an area out of the way. Have you found clothes articles in his car that is unexplainable to your mind? Does he ever plan a week-end get away with you? All of these signal he is definitely hiding something from you and you had better get to the bottom of it or you’ll end up with mustard on your face.