Comments on: Interracial Relationships: Black and White That Ain’t Right

By: christina

christina — Thu, 06 Oct 2011 04:02:36 +0000

I am black and my fiance is white and I love him to death and I have grown to now care with people think. I am a free black woman for a reason and if I want to love and be with someone from another race I can. I feel the kids of today are not so much into what race people are, its mainly racist comments coming from the older generation. Slavery days are over so people should get over it. There will never be a area with all whites,blacks,mexicans,whoever as long as there is love in the world. God wrote our beginnings and he’ll write our end and that’s something no one can take from us.

By: Steve

Steve — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 22:02:04 +0000

i have nothing against black people, but i can’t stand seeing a white woman with a black man. i’m no racist, but to me it just doesn’t seem right.

By: alvinwriter

alvinwriter — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 14:44:08 +0000

Freedom of love is important and shouldn’t be compromised by others’ opinion. People will always have a say in society.

By: christine

christine — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 06:13:39 +0000

I have been having a very hard time with this myself this incredible man that is beyond my belief at how loving and tender he can be asked me out we were friends at work started there at the same time and recently I began a divorce and he asked me out I didn’t know what to say I wanted to say yes but he was black and I white and I had been taught against such a thing yet here he was staring me in the face the man of my dreams was I going to let the color of his skin ruin what we could have. My black girlfriends told me he would hurt me and treat me as a possession and that a sexual encounter with him would be very painful. Most of my white friends that know him say he is a great guy and we all bleed the same color do it. God created all of us and all of us are different in some way shape or form I am sure my dad will never accept us and I guess that is ok because I have decided I am going to try it many white women have dated and even married black men and I don’t see blood running down their legs every day. Even though I am afraid of what we will face I am going to take this plunge because he is who I want to be with. He makes me laugh and he makes me feel so different than I have ever felt before I think God knew what he was doing when he brought him into my life. I am scared but I am excited and the only way to find out is to find out so here I go head first

By: baz

baz — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 13:39:09 +0000

Im a 36 year old white English man and I have been with my girlfried for 6 and a half months now. She is Ugandan and black as the ace of spades. I can honestly say she is the best women I have ever known.

By: Mariette Weyers

Mariette Weyers — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 06:49:42 +0000

Good day readers and writers. Im an afrikaans girl grew up in an boer house.. My father is from the old regeim. I have fell in love with a colourd man. im 25 he is 29. We have been together for 6months now and what a endless fight. From the beginning i have been open about what was happening in my life and the happiness is around and on my face. I have been greatly excepted by his family,Wich are from great morals and visions.But unfortunately not by mine. I got pregnant 2months ago and lost our baby at 10weeks due to stress..I heve 3sisters including me we are four. It was a constant fight from day one. The humiliation aparently killed them. The heartache killed Almost me but did our baby. After the loss Family and friends came to me and advised me that im lucky to have a second chance. and that I should have known a tiger and a lion doesnt sleep under one tree.We have lost our baby.. AND NOT ECHATHER. i am stilled conored by family and friends to stop our relationship.. But its impossible the love we have is undescribeble.And have made a decision, My family made the choice to push us away. and therefor i am not taking part in this fight anymore, i am not participating in their sleepless nights of hate and pain.I understand and aknowledge I cant change my father a man of 69 to adapt to me and therefor will respect him and my mother best way i can. We see a future together and children wether it works out or not its life and the road were on. But up untill then I believe in our love. And will stand up and fight if needed for our love.I have lost 3sisters wich one is gay and for her my situation was unecseptable!!! LOL I have realised it is an endless fight. and need to stop wasting time on the negativity of the world out there and to love and enjoy the positivity of our world.. At the end of the day isnt that what true love is all about.. Stay strong in what you believe in. And respect another human beings choice of life. You never know when you gonna need it most.

By: funkystarkitty50

funkystarkitty50 — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 23:45:03 +0000

I pray that you will continue to stand strong with your husband in the face of ignorance. I’m Black, my husband is White, so I know the stares. I just ignore it because you have to have a thick skin dealing with narrow-minded people. Prejudice is a disease and there are still people who are sick with it.

Good Luck to You and Your Husband:-)

By: Melinda J

Melinda J — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 19:37:17 +0000

Oh my Lord, I can’t people are so bold to post these negative comments. Great article, Susan. May God continue to bless the union of your marriage.

By: steen

steen — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 15:42:14 +0000

I find it amazing that all the white females MUST bring their African into the white community – all of them. I believe white females do it for attention. I also believe that they know darn well what would be their fate if they went to live in a black community – among his people.

I also believe she looks at him as her pet, as if she’s taming the savage beast. She’s saving him; she’s rescuing him; he has no chance without her pity and support.

The cultural and racial divide is there. It is established by males…and it will always exist. Her children will be black. Not mixed but black.

By: kidcrossen

kidcrossen — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 13:49:53 +0000

Susan, I am sorry for the moronic comment from Rog, people will believe anything no matter how fantastic. I really enjoyed your article and thoughts!! Very well-written and articulate/well-put. I have a black girlfriend, who I met online, havent met her, but I already dread getting stares when I visit her. She says it wont happen. I have gotten to really love her, her skin color is almost irrelevant, she is very unique as people go, but I cant tell my brother about her skin as he is a bit racist,and if my girlfriend decided to come visit me, I would almost have to talk her out of it because of my brother, Well, thanks for your article and God bless you and keep you! Sincerely, Will