Jumping Into Conclusions

We have a lot to learn about jumping into conclusions. I do admire people who know how to listen and weigh things over before making any conclusion to the matter. Even I myself is too impatient when I heard things, I am also into making my conclusions about certain things without even knowing the fact. Then later I realized, oh? why did I do that? why did I say things like that? Why I am so impatient to give judgment to people and make my own conclusions?

All of us have a lot to learn about making conclusions in certain things specially if it affects our relationships to others.  Making conclusions to certain issues without knowing the fact often results to bad ending. People who are doing that end up in trouble most of the time. How embarrassing it would  be when our conclusion in particular issue is wrong. We are just creating bad impressions of ourselves to others. What is sad in this situation is that it will become our trade mark. I was reminded of someone I know who always has a conclusion when something happened. No body likes to be with him  afraid that they might be a victim of his wrong conclusion all the time. This become his trademark and once people heard about him commenting in something or making his own judgment and conclusion to some issues, they won’t believe. See? people will lost respect when we always have wrong judgment or when we jump into conclusions without knowing the fact of that certain issues.

Why not learn from those who are calm and cool when they hear issues? I admit, it is hard to control our emotions specially when we are the target of the issue. We want to defend ourselves and fight and then we made our own conclusions against the one who did it to us.  Only few people are calm and in good natured  to face against issues. People of mature thinking and have an open mind to understand about individual differences usually are the ones who will keep quiet and make no judgment, comments or conclusions against issues. We need to grow up, in other words, we will stop acting like kids. We must learn how to listen, weigh things over before we say something.