It’s not just women that get bullied.
There are a lot of stories about men bullying women, but we hardly hear the opposite side of the coin, which is about women who bully their men. There are countless situations in the UK whereby couples fight, the woman hits the man and the police are called. If the woman tells the police she doesn’t want the man in the house, the police politely ask the man to leave the house. (Hardly, is a woman asked to leave the house)
Police Man: “Sir, she said she is uncomfortable with you in the house, is there anywhere else you can stay?”.
The poor guy has to pack a bag and leave. A lot of women abuse this situation, some to the point where they prevent their husband or partner from living in the house. Some men leave:
a) For the sake of the children.
b) To keep peace, while hoping for a reconciliation.
c) They still love the wife and want to give her some time and space.
d) Sadly, some have to rebuild their lives again and get another property as all they have, are left for the wife/partner and kids – for the sake of keeping a roof over their heads.
Are you being bullied by your wife/girlfriend?
Confront your partner about it in a calm manner. Some people don’t know that their behaviour is actually bullying. You could also seek Counselling or leave for a while to give them space and time to sort themselves out. They might change.
A word to the Women who Bully
The fact that he allows you to bully him does not make him weak, he is just being the bigger person and trying to be patient, most likely for the sake of the kids. Don’t make him resent you deeply, or even worse find another woman.