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Men Get Bullied Too, by Women

It’s not just women that get bullied.


There are a lot of stories about men bullying women, but we hardly hear the opposite side of the coin, which is about women who bully their men.  There are countless situations in the UK whereby couples fight, the woman hits the man and the police are called. If the woman tells the police she doesn’t want the man in the house, the police politely ask the man to leave the house.  (Hardly, is a woman asked to leave the house)


Police Man: “Sir, she said she is uncomfortable with you in the house, is there anywhere else you can stay?”.


The poor guy has to pack a bag and leave. A lot of women abuse this situation, some to the point where they prevent their husband or partner from living in the house. Some men leave:

a) For the sake of the children.

b) To keep peace, while hoping for a reconciliation.

c) They still love the wife and want to give her some time and space.

d) Sadly, some have to rebuild their lives again and get another property as all they have, are left for the wife/partner and kids – for the sake of keeping a roof over their heads.



Are you being bullied by your wife/girlfriend?

Confront your partner about it in a calm manner. Some people don’t know that their behaviour is actually bullying. You could also seek Counselling or leave for a while to give them space and time to sort themselves out. They might change.

A word to the Women who Bully

The fact that he allows you to bully him does not make him weak, he is just being the bigger person and trying to be patient, most likely for the sake of the kids. Don’t make him resent you deeply, or even worse find another woman.


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  1. UncleSammy

    On January 30, 2011 at 2:18 pm

    Nice share

  2. tonywriter

    On January 30, 2011 at 2:48 pm

    ya it’s a very true fact but women got the advantage just because they are women, Very Very true share my fried,my top article of the day

  3. Wizard Brown

    On January 30, 2011 at 5:10 pm

    This is true. Excellent subject choice Elena. Superb article

  4. Thespeakman

    On January 30, 2011 at 5:59 pm

    good subjest matter Lady E – very well written

  5. pschenck

    On January 30, 2011 at 9:09 pm

    So true – my husband and I have discussed this a few times and we agree that is happening but not acknowledged as widely as the reverse situation.

  6. fagina

    On January 31, 2011 at 1:47 am

    Nice post..But women bullying man is very rare right? At least that’s the situation in the place I live. I liked the message given to the bullying women at the end!

  7. lonelyplanet

    On January 31, 2011 at 7:10 am

    An interesting post.

  8. anndavey650

    On January 31, 2011 at 8:34 am

    Yes most of us don’t think about the other side of the story, but it can be just as nasty and unpleasant. It all comes down to being a responsible adult at the end of the day and if you can’t get along with each other – please do what is best for your children! Great post.

  9. UncleSammy

    On January 31, 2011 at 9:22 am

    Nice one, thanks

  10. Anupatil

    On January 31, 2011 at 2:18 pm

    I have seen some pairs doing this, there is problem in both sides ,so it is always better to understand each other to solve this problem,Thanks for the share.

  11. tiffi

    On February 1, 2011 at 11:50 am

    I agree! I see many whipped men all of the time!

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