Pedophile, Who is It?
by A very controversial subject, it’s something that most do not want to talk about as though it may somehow mysteriously go away. Some don’t want to talk about it because they feel uncomfortable about talking about children like this and who can blame them. It is a quiet sneaker crime, it is a sneaker because no one wants to talk openly about it and get it out in the open so that a lot of people are educated about pedophiles that prey on the innocent kids. And there are a lot of people that do not even know what a pedophile is or even what the name means or implies.
Pedophile, who is it?
So, what is a pedophile? Who is he or she? What do I look for, or can I look for? Is it someone who is sleezy and grubby dirty old person? Or, is it the pastor of the church or the nextdoor neighbor. The truth is, it can be anyone and can be someone who you might least expect.
Psychology calls it conditioning. The person can for years be hugging and holding and caressing the child/children. Conditioning; some man or woman in the church, someone who you would least expect can be giving candy to the kids, hugging them, and mainly hugging the girls frontally. This may not look like much and as many say; “Hugs are free”. But to the pedophile, they are conditioning the child for later on. (sound a bit squeamish?)
As the girl becomes of age, she begins to show her maturity. Now the hugs are more and the feeling is more. No one suspects it, not even the now 13 year old girl. You may think, huh! A guy, not so, females (some) find the young girl very attractive and almost luring.
Don’t get yourself into a corner by arguing with yourself about certain people because if you do, you will most likely be dead wrong. The person at church acts like he or she loves children a bit too much. Most likely, they have an absolute genuine love for children and nothing more. The old Gramma, well she certainly can’t be a pedophile, or Grampa Jones over there, he is as innocent looking as a feather. Don’t be so sure. What I am saying is that it can be anyone.
You the husband or you the mom, some may say, “Not Possible”. Truth? Yes, very possible and don’t count out parents as not being a pedophile, for many times, one of the parents are the one who gets arrested for just it.
Let us look at what the Dictionary says about this Pedophile. First the Urban Dictionary (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pedaphile) – a person with an obsession with children as sex objects. Overt acts, including taking sexually explicit photographs, molesting children and exposing one’s genitalia to children.
Dictionary.com; (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/pedaphile) an adult who is sexually attracted to young children.
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