Relationships: He’s Never Contacting Me
by So you feel like you have to do all the work here? Once upon a time he was the one running after you and now the roles have changed? He never calls you, texts you, emails you, and you feel that your own texts are becoming a bother to him?
Then you need to read this.
So you feel like you have to do all the work here?
Once upon a time he was the one running after you and now the roles have changed? He never calls you, texts you, emails you, while you are constantly the one who needs to do all these to keep in touch with him? And once you get in touch with him and you two are together, he seems so happy that you are positive that next time he’d be the one to call. But it’s you again, isn’t it, calling him?…
Confused? Don’t be. Not only guys are like this; girls are too.
I know my advice won’t get through to you as you are now focused on one thing only: understanding ‘why’ this is happening and hoping to make him see the light.
The ‘why’ can come from various reasons but the overall reason is that he simply doesn’t care enough for you. Besides, you don’t leave him time to breathe or to miss you, because by the time he would start missing you you have already messaged and texted him.
Whichever the reason of why he is not contacting you might be, try an experiment: make a deal with yourself that, no matter what, you will not contact him in any way for the next 3 weeks. Put that down in your calendar, agenda, cell phone. Don’t find excuses to call him. You want to see how long before he calls, right?
He will call, trust me. And when he calls, you act as if nothing has happened. He wants to go out? Fine. Go out with him but if you already have plans, tell him so, and let him invite you out another time.
You are switching roles with him. Do you understand that? You are not the one pursuing this anymore but he is. And believe me when I am saying that if a guy wants you and you have already been with him long enough for him to know that, he will do what needs to be done to get you.
Don’t let him take you for granted.
If you are asking me about the future of your relationship with him – I don’t know. If he is only responding positively to this kind of treatment, then he doesn’t care enough to want to be with you. You might simply be the one he is using to fill out his time or to raise his spirits…
Stop just listening to what he says: You know the saying “actions speak louder than words”? Think about it.
You can get him back. It’s just a matter of ‘for how long’? How long before you get tired of this game?
Good luck!
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