To Understand and Deal with Bullying

I watched the Oprah Winfrey’s show on “Bullies” a while ago and I said to myself, what a shame that the school and our society have become such a place of fear, uncertainties, disappointments and confusion for some people, rather than a place to build up their faith and momentum to overcome any obstacle. It is the same way in the church and in this world internationally. Things have gotten so out of control and with such a lack of reverence for anything good or decent, that we have lost the true values of what is worthy and right anymore. There is a low morale, lack of confidence, distrust and a rare encounter of those with morals or the desire to maintain any for life or their own.

Here is a book (Bible) that has been on the bestseller’s list for many decades and on many renowned shelves even now but yet we have ignored its contents or even having a desire to at least open it to agree or disagree.  If there is something good that can be used to improve a situation, then why not make the effort at all cause, to use it. You continue to seek elsewhere for answers and another best seller, while you refuse to adhere to the one that has topped them all for centuries, ’til this day. People have “never” been content enough to accept the righteousness of the time that we live, for they have always sort other means, fads, music, companions, fantasies, or anything new to appease this  flesh of ours. You tend to want the fame or popularity that society tells you is what shapes your lives and also will have others to embrace, accept and love you. If you do not first love yourself then there is no one anywhere who could do it for you.

You cannot blame the “bullies” fully, for people have allowed the system, the media, your so-called homies, clicks, society, schools and whatever have been permitted to be released as the truth, that you believe in; to dictate, confirm, write, speak, and to authenticate your being, while in the process losing one self, regardless of the wrong taught.  The Bible states that faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God (Bible-Rom. 10:17). What they hear is what they do. What they see is what they want. What they know is what they say. What they do is what they believe. This society has allowed so much corruption in certain areas while shutting their eyes to the corruptions in other areas that should and needs to be addressed. You cannot let others dictate to you what you already know is right regardless of the majority. If you lose yourself you lose everything else that is worth the essence of your living/being.