Who is Resposible for Underage Sex? Parents or The Government?

Who is it to blame for underage teenagers having sex? The parents or the Government?

I find it amazing when parents blame the Government for anything their kids do wrong.

If their children fail in school, drink, take drugs, have sex, get pregnant, get into trouble with the law, miss school and so many other things, it is somehow the Governments fault.

Are we living in a society where all we care about and do is have children and leave the rest for the world to take care of?

I was shocked to find out what kids in school do these days. A very close friend of mine who is a teacher in a school told me how she has caught kids young as 10 and 13 having sex in the school playing fields. She caught two boys and a girl having sex in the bushes, and was so disturbed that, she didnt know what to do or say. As for the kids, they didn’t care or look worried at all.
She eventually told the kids parents on a parents evening. But I wonder how these kids came to know about threesome or group sex?

But my question is, what did the parents of those kids do to make sure their kids would not do something like this again, if they did anything at all?

We hear so many stories about young teenage girls getting pregnant or having abortions. But that is just half the story. There are so many incidents like this that, we never hear about.

The same friend of mine also told me about a mother of a girl coming to see her on a parents evening and just crying to her. She was crying because she had to assist her daughter to have an abortion. The girl was only 12, and the girls mother wasn’t too sure about telling the father. Why not?

So who is it to blame? Is it the Government and the schools to blame because they are teaching sex education too early in school? In my opinion, teaching children about sex or safe sex at such a young age is telling them to have sex, and that it is ok to do that as long as they use contraceptives.

We shouldn’t forget as we have all been there, teenagers try to act like an adult and want be like an adult. They want to do what we do, and will go to any extreme to achieve that.

There are so many things that we do wrong or the Government that is harming our children. To list a few, below are some of the things I believe the Government of our countries are doing wrong: