Words are Our Expression

Words are an expression of how we feel, how we verbally express ourselves, yet the words that are expressed at the wrong time can have a profound effect on our counterpart. We expect to realize what we say and why, but in the heat of any moment those very words can make us happy, cry and maybe even worst. What is it that makes us want to act so profound, so out of space with our words. Things aren’t always what they seem to be.

There are words of encouragement as well as words that hurt, some of the common words are:

·         I love you

·         I need you

·         I hate you

·         You are so beautiful

These are the expression of words that will not work unless you know how to use them. If you love a person DO NOT treat them like they don’t exist six months later. In the beginning you are on a relationship trial, so try not to mess it up by changing your ways when you get to know each other. if passion is why you are together, make passion why you stay together. The problem with couples today is each person feels that one or the other:

·         Has to be in control

·         Have the last word

·         Be inferior to one another

·         Have mental or physical power

·         Be inconsiderate

But he/she have to understand this is life, and life comes at each one of you hard with complications, and hardships. So why take the hardship or make the complication default in the relationship. Why are relationships strung out full of stress instead of a stress relief. Yet we open our mouth to ask: “Why do we cheat?” Well let me explain in more detail so everyone can get the full understanding.

We do not cheat because we figure: if she/he won’t do it then someone else will no, this is what has been instilled. We cheat because the person he/she is with has not understood or figured out why the relationship took place or started in the first place. And because the pain has built up over time he/she feels that there has to be a way to find what was lost in another person. And even though he/she may still find interest in the one they are with, the person that has caught their interest has done more for the uplifting sprit he/she has been searching for. See we live in real life and it doesn’t stop until it revolves to its end. Why is it that he/she puts so much into a relationship just to be hurt in the long run, it is because over time the guard or wall has been taking down and he/she leaves themselves open for the torment and destruction, and he/she doesn’t leave the pain because through it all he/she has had children. But children do not make the relationship it is not their fault mommy and daddy fight. That is mom and dad’s fault that the words have went from a fire cracker to explode like a plane bomb.