http://socyberty.com/law/career-profile-mediatorarbitrator/ Sun, 19 Feb 2012 14:34:38 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://socyberty.com/law/career-profile-mediatorarbitrator/comment-page-1/#comment-64351 maria Thu, 18 Jun 2009 01:30:11 +0000 http://socyberty.com/law/career-profile-mediatorarbitrator/#comment-64351 I have had a recent mediation with our local butte county mediators, I will not mention her name, but she did influence me to look into going to school to become a mediator. Not because she touch me in a positive way or even did her job professionaly. She didnt! She allowed the other party to threaten me and insult me and when i discussed the other party saying he wanted to choke me in front of our three yr old children she rolled her eyes and say well i dont think your scared. She also continued to put every concern i had for the girls down and told me i was crazy. My ex husband has just recently gotten out of prision and has never taken care of the girls on his owen. My main concern was that every time i try to talk to him about the places that are not safe and there health issues he moaks me and puts it down, so my qeustion was how can i feel safe letting their father take them unsupervised if he is not willing to put his own agenda on hold and do whats right for our children? Our mediator could have simply said ok so what can we do to make sure the children are safe and that you both can work together on the locations ect. No she decided to cll me names and compare me to animals and believe in the good show an ex felon was putting on. I even ask the other party to please stop talking to me like that and disrespecting me and our mediator looked at me and said well your talking poorly about dad so your going to have to take it! I was not talking ill about the other partie. The things he did are real serious and the lack of follow through on proving himself to get any help with any of it is just as bad. So i would love to be able to help the children not the parents but the children and we can do that by listening to the clients u have. Yes children need to know there parents but at the same time not all parent are good for the children and until we realize that and work on makeing each parent better for the children we are fighting a loosing battle and our children are only going to grow up and be more resentful and there will be more crime because we are not teaching them that there are consiqeunces. I want to better our children our world. I have had a recent mediation with our local butte county mediators, I will not mention her name, but she did influence me to look into going to school to become a mediator. Not because she touch me in a positive way or even did her job professionaly. She didnt! She allowed the other party to threaten me and insult me and when i discussed the other party saying he wanted to choke me in front of our three yr old children she rolled her eyes and say well i dont think your scared. She also continued to put every concern i had for the girls down and told me i was crazy. My ex husband has just recently gotten out of prision and has never taken care of the girls on his owen. My main concern was that every time i try to talk to him about the places that are not safe and there health issues he moaks me and puts it down, so my qeustion was how can i feel safe letting their father take them unsupervised if he is not willing to put his own agenda on hold and do whats right for our children? Our mediator could have simply said ok so what can we do to make sure the children are safe and that you both can work together on the locations ect. No she decided to cll me names and compare me to animals and believe in the good show an ex felon was putting on. I even ask the other party to please stop talking to me like that and disrespecting me and our mediator looked at me and said well your talking poorly about dad so your going to have to take it! I was not talking ill about the other partie. The things he did are real serious and the lack of follow through on proving himself to get any help with any of it is just as bad. So i would love to be able to help the children not the parents but the children and we can do that by listening to the clients u have. Yes children need to know there parents but at the same time not all parent are good for the children and until we realize that and work on makeing each parent better for the children we are fighting a loosing battle and our children are only going to grow up and be more resentful and there will be more crime because we are not teaching them that there are consiqeunces. I want to better our children our world.

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