Are You Lonely Tonight?

Are you lonely tonight? Do you feel sad, empty, unhappy? Wondering if this is all there is to life. You
see so many advertisements on TV and in the newspaper showing couples, and how happy they are that they found each another. These ads are very misleading. Yes, having someone to share your life with is warm and loving but if you do not have someone now, it does not mean you are not fulfilled, or unhappy.

There are many couples in troubled relationships, abusive ones as well. However, they stay in them because they “think” if they do not they will be unhappy. Society will feel sorry for them. Well , they are wrong.

You can be happy and fulfilled without a partner. Start to trust in yourself and what your needs are. In addition, if you desire to meet someone, they will come along at the right time and not before.

Enjoy your own company. Do activities that you enjoy, explore your inner self and you will find that you are great company! You do not need someone to make you feel happy, or whole. No one can do that but you.

Yes, a relationship with someone would be nice, but do not just settle. You want a loving relationship, with mutual respect for each other and trust. Some relationships have none of these qualities. So think when you are feeling lonely that sometimes it is better to be alone and comfortable in your own skin, then being with someone who makes you feel even lonelier.

You are not alone,? There are so many unhappy, lonely people out there for whatever reason. However, you must realize that you have the power to change the direction your life is going in. When you feel lonely, do not feel sorry for yourself. Get out and volunteer with a church group, or at a school or some other organization. You could very well meet someone there.

Are you lonely? Take up a hobby, join a reading group, anything that will introduce you to others. You may find that you have quite a bit in common with them. Loneliness will suddenly not seem so important anymore and will take a back seat. Remember, there is someone out there that is just as unhappy, just as lonely as you feel so you are not alone.

Therefore, get up and get out, you may help another without even realizing it just by being there. Contribute your talents, your skills, and your compassion. So many people can use your help. There is no better time than the present.

Good Luck to you!

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