Believe, Cheer and Always be Your Best Friend

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I am writing this article right now because I realize, as we all know, our worst enemy is oftentimes ourselves. When I stop worrying, when I just let myself be natural and free, I know I can do anything, it is just a matter of remembering all the times that I’ve out shined even my greatest visions for myself and stop focusing on all the possible negative “what ifs”.

I believe “what ifs” are important for strategic planning, but if you focus on them too much you can unconsciously set yourself up for failure. This is not the avenue you want to spend too much time dwelling on. You must only focus on them in a perspective like “well if that happens, then I can do this”. There are always positive alternatives. There are always other doors that you can open. There are always people who are going to be willing to help you out. You must always remember this.

Again, you must remember that Donald Trump was in debt for millions of dollars. If he had just dwelt in the negative he would be homeless on the streets. Instead, he changed his actions. The bottom line was that he needed to make a tremendous amount of money, and he needed to make it quickly. People think miracles only happen to “other” people, but they do and will continue to keep happening for you. You must allow yourself to be open to them. You must believe in yourself every step of the way. You must continue to congratulate yourself for everything you do that is spectacular, brave, and an achievement; even the smallest thing, for all of entails growth, all of it takes tremendous belief in yourself and courage.

Yes, honestly, I am terrified about entering a new field; the arena of the independent contractor/entrepreneur. The “what ifs” are pouring in from every direction like a large wave crashing down on me trying to wash away the high that I felt every time I have proven to myself that I have what it takes to take this risk. It is my thoughts; it is my worries that are my biggest challenge right now.

I know this and I am trying to fully embrace it so that I can get it clean out of my system. The only way to succeed is to believe in you. People can feel your positive energy. I know that when I got into the flow of things, everybody loved me. I had people calling me back who weren’t sure about purchasing our product and wanted to buy them later over the phone after my first day! It was incredible. It was an amazing feeling. In total I moved 17 units for the first day, including call backs.