Finding Your Abode

Oh no! You have lost your favored, adored, revered abode. The convenient natural instinctive dwelling place…palace…cantina…igloo…tent…apartment…ranch…camp ground, whatever place you call home. That, my friend is a very SAD thing!

Because, you may be without proper shelter? No, NOT at all. {That would be easy to fix.}  If that’s all that was involved in the matter, a few physical adjustments and geographical relocation would take care of the awkward and uncomfortable circumstance. No kidding, it’s much more involved than that. Let’s break out the tissues for this gut wrenching tragedy.  {A dislocated heart-screeching travesty, no less.} Are you ready for the news? You have left your beloved.  Your temple is empty. You have closed up shop leaving no forwarding address. Bottom line: You have left your first and only true love…yourself. When this unfortunate event occurs, it’s more than a crying shame. It’s zombie time. But, on the same token, it can be a momentous life-renewing occasion should you be able to recognize and remedy the overwhelming barrenness, apathy and lack-luster {of your individual body’s electricity} emanating from you. Now, not later, is the time to be willing to restore yourself to your natural rightful self-satisfying position. It all boils down to accepting the life-affirming necessity to show up for a ‘high noon’ Pleasure verses Lethargy confrontation.  No more making flimsy excuses, inventing sniffling apologies and baffling effacing explanations. No longer can you evade the duty of fulfilling your appointed cosmic destiny. No longer can you act like you are contrite by sublimating your personal long-held desires. You may endearingly call it sacrifice.  No such luck; it’s non-pleasure stupidity.

When you leave the helm of your earthly ordained ship, no other hands can fit the wheel. No matter how much you would like to believe otherwise. No one can do a better job of running your life than you can. In other words, nobody can do you like you can do you. So, the vessel drifts haphazardly along until you decide to take back the rudder. Are you ready to do that?  Are you ready to make ONE authentic commitment?  {An openly vain self-adorned determined effort to seek, study, observe and expose the mystery of you in fullness?} Holding nothing back! There’s one little hitch, however. You are not allowed to eliminate one single aspect that you may deem unpleasant or unsavory. It is only by and through (what you define as) the base elements of your nature that you can actually discover what makes you tick. As long as you continue to judge, analyze, condemn and subjugate aspects of your personality, you will never be able to fully integrate and appreciate their value as making up the completely magnificent creature you are.  The same goes for your praising certain preferred elements in your personality. Refuse to be lured by their comfortable familiarity.