Five Things to Remember When Dealing with Change

Change

What happens when you really think you know somebody. But suddenly they commit one big mistake, or they do something stupid on purpose, and then you feel like you don’t know them anymore… Because the person you knew, the person you thought you knew would never do such a thing? Well i want to tell you today, that we do that, humans change. And can change drastically depending on the kind of situation they are in. So let me be the first person to say that sometimes change sucks, and sometimes we end up in situation were we don’t know who to blame for the outcome… should we blame God? Our family, our friends? The economy? What about the president? Do you want the answer? The simple answer is you… blame them or even better, blame their priorities, or your priorities. “My priorities?” Yes, your priorities because our choices reflect the set of priorities we have. So look at them and then pick them wisely so that the change, that inevitable change comes out for the best.

What To Do With Change?

There are a couple of things you can do with change; you either choose to embrace it and start over, or you make the decision of rejecting it and starting over. Either way, you are going to have to start over after the change has happened. Because things will never be the same again, and the tough stuff happens when a loved one changes for the worse; And then, you have to make the strong decision of whether helping him out of that change, or embracing it and learn to live with the new him or her. But now if you ask me; I would strongly suggest you get them out of it, because change is progressive, and if that bad change starts progressing and getting worse then the outcome will not be good. And then we just start lying to ourselves, telling ourselves that that is who they are, and that there is nothing we can do about it, and when we get to that point, its too late because we give up all hope. So in conclusion, what I want to tell you is that change happens and sometimes it seems like only bad change is happening. But do not loose hope, because it all happens for a reason, and I truly believe that. Do not endorse bad habits or bad change, if he is a “pothead” that doesn’t mean that’s all good, that’s just a big sign saying; “HELP ME” so go… Help them… and be strong.

Things To Remember:

1. Don’t be afraid of it.

2. Don’t endorse it if it’s bad.

3. The choices we make reflect

the set of priorities we have.

4. Don’t lie to yourself.

5. Change is progressive.