Forgiveness is Essential to Quality Living

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To forgive someone, we must go to them and ask for it being sincere. About thirty years ago, while in undergraduate school, I was abused by my husband. When we went to the doctor with my child in tow, he shook his head and asked me if someone had struck me bursting my eardrum. We told hime the truth and latter got a divorce, but when I went back to obtain those records, they had been destroyed. Any man or woman who is mean to animals will abuse persons and need psychological help to change. We must move on in life, but these problems may leave emotional scars that last a lifetime. The circle of violence must be broken. I finished a four year university with a child and no help. I worked doing jobs on the outside. Persons in authority must be careful when they decree a thing for even though human, and humans make mistakes, they will be held accountable for truth has a way of making itself known. How I regret not pressing charges back then, I wanted that husband to become a doctor, for he was in medical school and In the future I knew he could save many lives. He never asked for my forgiveness or my childs. He tortured her pets and destroyed some of them. Revenge was not an option for me. He moved away long ago and I know life has a way of getting even with each one. If you are afraid to ask someones forgiveness for what ever reason, it makes you the coward, not them. Another doctor took good care of one of my family members. He had his nurse tell me my family member would be dead soon. This caused severe problems in our family and even a mental breakdown. It has not happened yet either and it has been over three years ago. How can these service workers decree a thing and put such powerful negative statements to any good use? Forgive and you will be forgiven we are taught. By whom I ask?