Getting Frustrated?: Start Appreciating Others
by Stephens Covey suggested in his Habit No 05 ” Seek first to understand ,then to be understood”( Seven habits of highly effective people :Stephen R.Covey).Using the same theme,I am recommending this formula for uplifting our own morale.” Start recognising others” The earlier ,is the better.
I am suggesting a few tips for immediately getting out of your own frustrations.Many of us friends here are earning from the web.Many have supplemented their main stream income with a stream from their on line tasks.This article is providing a few tips to all such persons who are making “working from home “ as their main objective.
You shall all agree with me ( especially my writer friends) that there comes a particular period during our working when we suddenly get tired.There is no focus.What ever you do to activate your attention on writing, you are not able to concentrate on your writing task.The mind becomes quite scattered.
These easy to follow tips are intended to keep you tuned up.Always.
Tip No 01: Random reading : When ever you feel burnt out or tired on the web, start reading articles written by others.On this you shall certainly ask me.Articles on which subject ? So my answer is: friends, do not be selective at all. Believe on the randomness of the events.Just start following up which ever link comes before you.Don’t worry whether its a topic related to your interest or not.Just read it.Don’t forget to send a message to that person on your perceptions about that article. Every one likes his work to be read by people.So, by reading someones article without any expectations from him really creates lots of wonders.
Tip no 02:Start appreciating others : Please do not under estimate what I am suggesting. Just think, each person always craves to get attention & recognition from others.Can we not do some thing in this direction ? When you are reading various articles, start observing the positive points in his/her work.I have yet to read an article which does not have any strengths of its own.Its true that there cannot be a perfect article.At the same time, appreciate that each person has been trying his level best to present a perfect view.So when you start reading the article from the authors perspective, it becomes a different experience all together.
Tip No 03:Focus on the strengths rather than limitations:It has been said by a famous person ” Each person that I meet , is superior to me in some aspects…in that aspect, I learn from that person”
Summary:Motivation is a very vast subject.Self motivation is very easy if you just follow the principle of “give and take”.The more you give ( recognition, praise,appreciation) the more it shall come back to you.Why not put these tips to practice from now onwards ? Best of luck.
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