I Can Do It

I’ve had many good and bad experiences in my life which either helped me to grow or allowed me to put another prospective on life.

One thing I have learned is not to allow my past hurts or disappointment gets me down that I cannot progress in life.

Sometimes we plan for our futures, for example:

I’m going get a good job and find a partner and get married and settle down and have many children and so forth.

REALLY!

Living in this society these days, where marriage and long term relationships are not valid anymore. People have not respect for commitment. They are sacred to take a risk and say, you know what I love this person and I am going to proof to him/her that I am committed to them by marrying them or making them know that they will be the only person who they will commit themselves to, and will not allow any third party to come between them.

You did not get that job because you may of gotten pregnant or something, and felt really disappointed that no one would want to give a person like me in this position a chance after they find out my past.

Yes! Life is full of disappointments but you don’t have to stay down, you need to remain positive that although your relationship failed or something got in the way of you not going for that dream job, life goes on. You still can achieve your dream job.

I always say that there is a reason of everything that happens in life and we can choose to let situations weather good or bad control us or we can take a step at a time move on and pick ourselves up and dust ourselves of and start all over again. Tell ourselves that was not meant to be.

I always wanted children early in life, in my past relationship, but it never worked out. God knows it was a good job that it didn’t because I would have had to be paying the price now for a relationship which did not work, and would have had to still have contact with him.

You see now that my life has gone in a better direction and I have children, I have them with a man who loves me and is more mature. We are married and he is committed to me as I am to him. I was not ready to have children then, or was it a good idea to have them with that other person at that time.

There is a season for everything and this time round was my season, we must learn a lesson in whatever we go through in our lives and try to be positive that we are going do well.

Whatever life has to offer be grateful and give thanks approach life head on so you will be able and want to move forward.

We need patience in our life and when the time is right, Mr Right will come along, and that job which you have been seeking for will all of a sudden be in the news paper, and that dress that you wanted to buy or fit into you will be able to do just that.

Life goes on no matter what happens!