Is It Possible That Life Is A Private Joke?

The biggest gift any one can develop is humour. The ability and sense to laugh at life and oneself is “happy therapy” and literally can make you lighter! Lighter in spirit and lighter in weight as laughter gets those abs working. We all try and evade the “draining person” which means the one that always moans and groans. If you find loved ones walking away, pay an ear to your output of words. Do not banish light with gloom and doom. In fact living in South Africa with continuous black outs is a perfect country to develop stress management and patience skills to deal with frustration. It is a matter of “retrograde adaptation” in South Africa for many inhabitants. Watching the international scene, having expectations and wanting better for the future all leads to anguish in “retrograde adaptation”. Anger, all those negative thoughts; it is all really a waste of energy after a while. Should we just accept life and be happy with it? Go with the flow and chill out, is that the way to be during tiring times? If we all sat back and waited nothing much may alter. Remember life is complex so we need some “fighters”. If we all were gold chasers there would never be enough to cover everyone’s needs.

Life is about balance. Our lives are journeys. Your path can cross another person’s path; it may converge with your best friend or house mates. The thing is one starts out alone and one ends it alone but relationships certainly lead to a fulfilling and fun journey. Surely, for many it is mundane in a journey of predictability and repetitive scenery! Have a laugh; the sun always comes out eventually after the storm. Oi! With global warming, you can count on tons of sunny days.