Life Struggles

To many times in this life we fall short of our goals and wants. The part of us that drives us nuts when we don’t achieve what we want. My husband and I have been struggling with this matter for a long time. So trust me when I say this, we completely understand. It’s like that saying “Been there, done that, and got a tee-shirt for it”. It is not a place where anyone likes to be. Here’s the thing that gets me and many other people. You can’t get help unless you have money. If you have money than you should not need help. At least that’s how I think. Those of us who are trying so hard to keep our jobs, cars, homes, etc; breaking our backs everyday to do so are the ones that need help.

A good friend of mine and I got into a discussion the other day about situations of such. He’s about to have to shut down his garage because he’s not getting enough business. He does good work but he does not have enough business. A lot of things that happen to us are definitely not by choice. I’m pretty sure most of us would love to be able to wake up in the mornings knowing that when they come home they will not have an eviction notice on their door, or a bill collector bugging them. Trust me we know you need to do your jobs but sometimes we just need some slack.

Here’s another thing, if your one of those people who are able to pay things back and do not, just remember, your hurting not only yourself but other who truly need the help and would pay it back. Not all of us have everything handed to us. Not everyone has or had wonderful parents that gave us a roof over our heads and made us stay through school. Grant it it’s the young persons’ responsibility to make sure they do correctly, but some do not have the ability to be able to stay in school if they expect to be able to make it.

These are just some thought, so please excuse the lack of structure in this little piece. Just ranting does good sometimes.