Always love yourself no matter how you feel about yourself or what you see when you look in the mirror. If you have doublts, try to look your best when going out in public or going to a special place. That may lift you up. You never know who’s out there watching you. A good compliment will make you feel more confident about yourself. If you don’t love yourself (inside or outside) who do you think will love you or care about you. It is all up to you from the beginning. It doesn’t matter how you look whether you have a large frame or a small frame,God made all of us. You are special to him in more ways than one. Some people get tummy tucks, face lifts and other medical procedures to make them look great for themselves and the public eye. Everyone doesn’t have money to do those types of things. It is best, from my point of view, since I’m one of those people who don’t have that kind of money to dress the best that I can and do fun things for myself to make me happy.