Ever let rejection defeat your purpose, but learn from the rejection and become stronger because of it. If you get knocked down to the ground, then pick yourself back up and dust yourself off and start again. If you let rejection defeat your purpose than you are never going to go very far and will alway be unhappy.

Sure somethings are out of our control, but that only means that we must work harder for what we want our lives to be. There are over 6 billion people living on this planet, so there is plenty of opportunity to be heard, be seen and become successful in something. You just have to want it and be willing to go for it.

Of course, I am mostly speaking in terms of a career, because with a career you are more in the driver’s seat than you might otherwise believe. When it comes to mates, then I will be the first to admit that I have absolutely NO experience in this area. So, I cannot give much advice that could help anyone.

For me, my life has always be focused on God and career. I have never been married, been in a serious relationship, No children, and no sex. For me, it is a matter of focusing on what is important to me and what is going to improve my life and the lives of those around me. When the right woman enters my life, then I will focus on a relationship, but that has not happened yet and I am not into one night stands – it again is all about focusing on what is really important.

Call my life boring, but I have more joy than I can shake a stick at.

Ask yourself. What is important to you, and then don’t think twice and just go for it. The only person holding you back is you.

Learn to trust people, too. No one can do it alone. It takes a helping hand along the way sometimes. Not everyone is untrustworthy, but you need to checkout the references of those who either wants to help you or that you want to help you. Get to know the people that you are doing business with, before actually doing business with them.

God Bless,

Nelson Doyle