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Moderation is the Way to Live Our Lives as they are Meant to be Lived

by Mr Ghaz in Lifestyle Choices, March 9, 2009

Moderation is the key to life. It is the way to live our lives as it meant to be lived. A moderate person who simply works for his living has no fear of losing his wealth and no worries about his next meal. Moderation carries him along without any problems.

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If we eat too much, we are liable to grow fat thus becoming vulnerable to so many diseases just waiting to do their dirty job on us. If we do not eat enough them we will suffer the consequences of malnutrition. Overeating and not eating enough are extremes. They do not help us to live life fully. Either way we pay the price of becoming extreme. The only sane and healthy way is to eat moderately, enough to sustain our bodies but not too much to cause problems.

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Over-Righteous Attitude

There are some people who are fanatically religious. They become blind to other things beside what they think religion demands of them. As a result they live out of touch with reality and cause numerous problems to the rest of us. Their over – righteous attitude to life makes them see things only in two ways – right or wrong. They make for themselves a prison of their beliefs and damn the rest of us who do not agree with them.

Right on the opposite ends are godless people without a strand of conscience in their hearts. They are more like animal who give way to all their lusts and desires. They say and do things that show no respect or concern for other people. All they want is the satisfaction of their desires, regardless the consequences.

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Religious Fanaticism or Extreme Godlessness

Religious fanaticism or godlessness is extremes that will only bring grief to those involved with them. Both require the taking of one side to the complete avoidance of the opposite. The result is an imbalance that can only bring disaster.

A person who wishes to remain clear – headed will not indulge in any of these extremes. He does not wish to blind his eyes with religious fury nor inflame his heart with uncontrolled passion. He is moderate person who lives his life gently letting his conscience be his guide. His life then proceeds along smoothly and calmly.

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An Unavoidable Fact of Life

Everything in this world has its opposite. This is an unavoidable fact of life. We know something is hot only in relation to something cold. A person is tall only when compared to a short person. We are rich only when compared to a poorer person. Freedom is only meaningful when we experience the shackles of restriction. We value our health because we know that we are capable of falling ill.

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Let Nature Run its Course Painlessly and Gently

Society has a penchant for youthfulness. So in its extreme, everybody tries to remain young. Cosmetics sell in huge quantities. Boys and girls dress in all kinds of atrocities that they think make them young and desirable. Middle – aged men and women too indulge in the same game. But nature has its way. People grow older by the moment. Old codgers fight a losing battle with time. Finally when old age sets in they sit mournfully alone in old folk’ s homes or stately mansions with nobody around but a servant. The desirable extreme of trying to remain young will result in the unhappy extreme of getting old. If in the first place, we are moderate with our lives, not identifying with youth or old – age, then it will not matter at all whether we are young or old. We can live peacefully with ourselves. We let nature run its course painless gently.

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Be a Moderate Person

So it is with other areas of life. An overly rich person is afraid of losing his wealth. His very riches keep him anxious. He is prisoner of wealth. A person living in abject poverty is anxious about where his next meal will come from. He is prisoner of fear. A moderate person who simply works for his living has no fear of losing his wealth and no worries about his next meal. Moderation carries him along without any problems.

Those who over-exercise will burn themselves out. Those who sit sedately all day suffer from atrophy. A boy who studies all the time has no friends. Another who only makes friends fails in his examinations. Staying too long under the sun can result heatstroke and sunburn. Not going out at all makes the skin pale and pallid. Riding too fast on motorcycle means you may loose balance. Not moving at all means you cannot sit balanced on the motorcycle too. Sharpening a knife too often will wear the blade away quickly. Not sharpening at all will render the knife useless. Being extreme is always the cause of pain.

Moderation, then, is the key to life. It is the way to live our lives as it meant to be lived.

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  1. Debra.

    On March 9, 2009 at 8:33 am


    Very interesting article, Mr Ghaz. Well done.

  2. Lee Altman

    On March 9, 2009 at 9:26 am


    Great article and your absolutely right. Moderation is the key. This world would be a better place with it.
    Lee

  3. payge

    On March 9, 2009 at 10:03 am


    A very interesting article with again unusual pictures.I did have to wonder how tall the guy witth the cane was though.But you are right,moderation is a good thing to practice for more reasons then one.Ggreat article.

  4. Darla Smith

    On March 9, 2009 at 10:21 am


    A very interesting article, which I really enjoyed reading. It’s true, moderation is the best way to go.

  5. Monica Sappleton

    On March 9, 2009 at 10:25 am


    A very nice, informative article. Thanks for the lovely pics too.
    Monica

  6. gianne

    On March 9, 2009 at 11:11 am


    This is a lovely way to make a point. One that I agree with, btw.

  7. The Good Vibes Girl

    On March 9, 2009 at 12:31 pm


    Exellent article, and well illustrated, A very enjoyable read.

  8. papaleng

    On March 9, 2009 at 12:41 pm


    another informative article. I really learn lots from your articles. Thanks.

  9. Christine Ramsay

    On March 9, 2009 at 2:07 pm


    Such wise words. This is an article we can all learn from. Good work.

    Christine

  10. C. S. Robins

    On March 9, 2009 at 3:54 pm


    You make it sound so simple, when really moderation is the most difficult thing to achieve. However it is how we are supposed to live. Livinmg in an extreme is easy; moderation takes discipline, control, wisdom, and hard work. If everyone practiced more moderation they would find less troubles and worries with themselves and others.

  11. Tarra Buluran

    On March 9, 2009 at 6:04 pm


    This article has touched me to the extremes but I want to praise you in reasonable moderation, so let me simply say thank you for sharing this. It will surely help many people. Keep it up!

  12. Ruby Hawk

    On March 9, 2009 at 7:57 pm


    I agree with you completely. Moderation is the best way to live life. YOu are a wise person.

  13. nutuba

    On March 9, 2009 at 9:26 pm


    Good insight here, Mr. Ghaz. Nicely done article.

  14. The Quail

    On March 9, 2009 at 10:52 pm


    A very interesting article and very well written as well as researched. Awesome writing job and I consider it to be a super write!

  15. butterflysects

    On March 10, 2009 at 3:37 am


    moderation is the key, indeed.. but how can we be moderate when there are unavoidable external factors which would cause as human beings to be sometimes not in a moderate state? (just a thought, though)
    hey, a very, very nice article!=)

  16. Serenity Jones

    On March 10, 2009 at 10:44 am


    I bow to the wisdom of a sage.

  17. Unofre Pili

    On March 10, 2009 at 3:17 pm


    Thanks for the wisdom Mr. Ghanz. I can’t agree more.Is it what philosophers call, Stoicism?

  18. CutestPrincess

    On March 10, 2009 at 3:58 pm


    a word of wisdom…excellent job!

  19. ML Sheldon

    On March 11, 2009 at 1:11 pm


    You have some good points there.

  20. Kate Smedley

    On March 12, 2009 at 2:06 am


    Excellent advice, so much wisdom in this piece of writing.

  21. Jo Oliver

    On March 23, 2009 at 11:27 am


    Very good points, and well composed. I do believe in moderation. Too many people want too much…too fast..and with too little effort. Your points about the extremes of each side are very true. People should ask if they are doing all they can to be THEIR best…not THE best!

  22. DA Cournean

    On August 6, 2009 at 8:26 am


    Very good thoughts Mr. Ghaz!

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