Moving Forward with Life

Challenges are there to test our ability to deal and cope with crisis . That’s why we need to be tactful so we can deal with every difficult & frustrating situation which we might encounter. We may not know everything but at least we must know a little bit of everything so we don’t get lost when we need to come up with a good solution.

My dad always used to tell me, once I become a grown up, I should bear in mind that being a woman is great yet I would face alot of trials and I should not fret about it as I could prepare myself early. Should a problem arise at least I have an idea how to handle it. When my dad was alive I used to chat with him alot, he would ask me situational questions and would try to extract answers from me and out of those answers he then told me that my answers were right but it would be more effective if I would consider incorporating his ideas with my ideas as two heads were better than one. I just love the way he taught me stuff. He loved teaching me using the deductive method of reasoning and parallel way of thinking.

I guess I owe this style from my dad as I am using it now, alot. It always works.

My dad passed away at the age of 54 on the 18th of January 2001,after battling with his 3rd attack of stroke in May of year 2000, he suffered for 8 months. He was practically blind after the attack but he kept it a secret from us, he was pretending he could still see so we would not get worried. My dad was the most optimistic person I had ever known. I always remember what he told me the last day I had seen him before he died, he said that I have to be tough and brave so I would be happy. With or without a man in my life, I must be complete for he had raised me as a happy daughter and there would be no way he would like to see me get hurt or cry. When people were not treating me right, he advised me to stay away from them for they were not worth a single bit of my time and energy.He would not be happy to know that I argued with people who were hurting me or bullying me. My dad used to tell me that people who are not nice or inhuman are stupid and savage as it is common knowledge to everybody, with or without education, that we must be nice to others. People who choose to be inhumane are not human as they cannot relate with the nature of being homosapiens.