Introduction:

When a person is born, his fresh mind holds within it two different ways of thinking; the Negative Thinking “N” and the Positive Thinking “P”. As the mind starts to grow and evolve towards becoming more mature and stable, these two sides (N & P) start to develop with it. Parents, family members, friends, incidents, accidents and numerous other factors affect the evolution and growth of these two perceptions. At all times, N & P struggle to dominate each other and the dominant one rules over the personality of the person.

Positive Thinking:

“P” (Positive Thinking) is the most important gift given by nature to every human being, the presence of which most people don’t realize. It is the part of a person’s mind which lets him experience beautiful feelings like happiness, enjoyment, satisfaction etc. It is the approach that helps him truly understand and feel the beauty of life. Positive Thinking can be considered as the most import element to LIVE LIFE IN ITS TRUE MEANING.

Negative Thinking:

“N” the Negative Thinking, if used properly can prove to be the saviour of a person from the worst possibilities of life; but if left uncontrolled, can burn every single feeling of happiness and joy a person could experience. Hence N can be classified into two sub-categories:
Controlled Negative Thinking “CNT”
Uncontrolled Negative Thinking “UNT”

Controlled Negative Thinking “CNT”:

If a person is able to control his Negative Thinking, it can save him from failures and disappointments in all issues of life. This can only be done by making P strong enough that it keeps N in control. CNT helps a person identify his faults, possible flaws in his plans and possible factors which could affect his pace of progress. CNT also helps a person predict the negative results of a future incident, so that he could take precautionary measures and eliminate those factors.

Uncontrolled Negative Thinking “UNT”:

UNT is the worst enemy of a person. It takes away all that is good and leaves the person sunk in depths of pain & sorrow; helpless, unaware of the true cause of that pain. The more UNT is left unnoticed, the stronger it becomes and at its extreme strength can even force a person to take his own life by committing suicide. Whether anyone comes to know it or not, the main cause of every single suicide committed is UNT. UNT can easily ruin the most precious moments a person could experience in life. It can eliminate pleasure out of the most enjoyable experiences. It can effortlessly turn the moments of extreme happiness and delight into sorrow and pain.

Effects of N & P on different phases in life:

Effects on Love:

Before falling in love, a person is unaware of the dominance of his own mind over his actions. He thinks that the mind can be controlled easily no matter what the circumstances are; but once he falls in love, he comes to know about the uncontrollability and obstinacy of his own mind. For a person in love if N is strong and uncontrolled, it takes away peace of mind and serenity from his life. UNT forces the mind to continuously think about the worst possibilities of his love life. It also creates and strengthens the fear that something bad could happen to his loved one. Combined with intense uncontrollability of the mind, the stronger N grows, the more it leads the mind towards darkness and anxiety resulting in extreme mental stress, medical deficiencies and severe medical problems. UNT also lessens the trust and faith of a person on his lover. It continuously induces the mind of a lover to think about the worst possibilities, like the possibility of loosing his loved one for undefined reasons, chance of a terrible ending to their love story etc. UNT is the main reason why most of the people fallen in love are mentally disturbed, restless and in a constant state of tension & stress. They call it the inescapable pain of love, which is in fact the pain and stress caused by UNT.

On the other hand, there lies a truly fascinating and charismatic side of Love which can only be felt and experienced with Positive Thinking. To truly experience the magic of love one needs to make P strong and dominating. Once he is able to do this, UNT automatically converts into CNT, i.e. N will no longer be dominant. This will result in true serenity and satisfaction. When P is combined with love, it creates such a magical and ethereal state of mind which is inexpressible and can only be understood by experience. For a lover, when P becomes strong all the sorrows vanish, disappointments turn into hope, all impossibilities seem possible. His energy and determination to achieve his goals boost to the highest level he had ever attained in his life. Love is a feeling that in the presence of P enhances the abilities of a person to make everything possible. With such intense positive energy a person becomes capable of achieving everything his heart desires.

to be continued…..

BE Positive and everything will automatically Be positive..

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