My overweight sisters, where is your confidence? Do you realize how sexy you are? First of all, let’s break this word down, overweight. Overweight probably doesn’t apply to you at all. I believe that you are overweight when your health is at risk or you have gland complications or things that could to lead to heart trouble. Yes, I would encourage you to change your diet for those health reason but, baby, let me tell you, you are not overweight just because you are plus size and you are sure not unsexy because of it either!

The main problem does not actually start with the plus size woman but with society. The one thing that society is really great at is putting the pressure on you. Almost three out of six commercials that I see everyday pertains to weight loss and that dream body that they think everybody wants before the summer hits, ect., ect. When and where have we decided that extra weight is so unattractive that we have to etch these commercials into people’s minds and make them practically crazy because they can’t reach these weight loss goals that these commercials tell them is so easy to reach? I have noticed that even in my own family, my six year old niece is already worried about if she’s the right shape, just from all the television commercials that she’s seen, and she doesn’t have an ounce of fat on her. I myself have lost quite a bit of weight but thank goodness it was for me, because it makes me feel good to be healthy. So can an overweight woman be healthy? Absolutely!

It is not meant for everyone to be thin. Just because you are does not at all mean that you are healthier than a plus sized woman. I personally know plus sized women who are big fruit and vegetable eaters, massive drinkers of water and on many occasions, joggers in the park. They say they don’t really exercise and eat right just to lose weight but because living healthy does a plus size body as much good as a thin person. When a man sees a woman he is attracted by many things: shape, conversation, confidence, clothing, attitude, ect. But I dare any man who may have steered from the plus sized woman to conversate with her just once. Plus sized women who are confident can be very dangerous on the competition. Competition may stand no chance against a confident plus sized woman. I’ve seen it. The most important thing for a plus sized woman to remember is that it is not against any law to be plus sized and to have attitude with it. If you truly know that you are beautiful, like I  know you are, then it will become inevitable for other people to discover it. There is nothing sexier than a woman who knows!

P.S. There are many men out there who love plus sized women. And if ever you decide that you want to be thinner, do it for you! Never for a man and never for a commercial. Stay sexy!