Positive Approach

You will learn how your beliefs shape your life experience and become aware of exactly how you are creating your reality.

The first thing all should consider is accepting the comments any one makes on you, and never accept to your inner mind as it is, without analyzing about it. Because if used to believe others say and try to follow them, then you will be loosing your identity, and others don’t know about you as much as you know. There may be some reason for them make comment on you. So accept the comments from others to the face and analyze and follow up, if the comments are correct and required some changes only. Never feel invalidated when some one badly comment on you, rather thing what made him/her to comment like that.

Do you depend on some one for completing some of your works or other things? In that time you may come across some problems which you may feel the other person is not cooperating well. Let your partner understand what you feel in an empathic manner. Don’t say it in a way like fighting or like requesting very faithfully, explain the responsibility of your partner in respective manner.

Don’t allow some one to set your goals, that will not be your real purpose of your life since you only know about you better than any one else. Don’t try to follow some study or job because of some wanted you to do such, even if it is your father. Always decide based on your interest, talent etc.

You may feel bad when some one present in the place where ever you go and feel good for another. Analyze which different among them made you to feel differently between them, this will help you identify your likes and dislikes yourself. This approach will help you improve your self to accept anyone any where without any uncomfortable.

Understand what is going on. What are your likes, dislikes, goals and purposes has been suppressed. They may be suppressed yourself as well, but originally they were aspects of your own identity.

When receive a criticism or complaint from some one, always think whether which is made based on false assumption or the criticism is an over-generalized one (for example when you do some mistake some where the person can say you are always making mistake), and have you ever criticized some one for the same thing? This will help you to improve you personally better and will guide to be without affected by bad criticism on you.