Self Help tips

1. Never let anyone make you angry enough to go outside of yourself dignity. This means when some one says or does something you feel isn’t just; do not respond in an unjust manner. In other words evaluate what is making this person say or do such a thing. Most of the time it’s deeper than you thing. Only the surface is being displayed. You need to be the bigger person as my brother states or keep your side of the street clean, as my sister would say.
2. Laugh out loud everyday about something and don’t admire outward appearances look for inside feelings they last longer and keep your soul at peace. If you look at outside appearances you will always see something you don’t have because you’ll be blinded by the views of the world you can’t help it your human. Therefore, laugh and admire yourself as a wonderful human being. Then, you can spread joy, and also see the good in others as well.
3. Pray for peace and thank god for waking up and thank god in the middle of the day and thank god at night when you lay your head on the pillow to retire. Also judge no one say god you know who this person is and you may judge not me. This will allow you to stay away from looking at other people’s faults. Now no one is telling you to ignore outright brutality. However, most of the faults we see in others usually are the same faults we possess and are not ready to take a look at them. So we point the finger at someone to say look at him or her meanwhile we have the same faults if we stop for a minute and thing about it it’s true. Harmony and a stress free attitude one will gain when putting these into practice.
4. For example, the best preachers are the ones who have sinned a great deal because they can tell you what your doing and how god can help you because they had the same faults as you. They will not judge but direct you to the cause and let you know the effects of praying and entering in a relationship with god.
5. Feel the fire go through the storm without an umbrella don’t allow yourself to say someone cause you to be who you are because only god created you and only he has the power to make you into something. I had a shirt that said if your going in the wrong direction God allows U turns. Just turn yourself around and with practice you will start to turn automatically. That mean when your doing wrong you make an about face. Some critics will say oh you just keep making the same mistakes. But I like this Gospel song that says please be patient with me God is not through with me yet. Be patient with yourself and don’t let anyone tell you you’ll never change. I look at myself 10 years ago and some positive changes have occurred. Does that mean I have nothing left to work on absolutely not. However, I’m working on it everyday that I’m faced with a task. Can I rise to the occasion Yes I can. God moves Mountains turn around and let God handle the rest.

Practice these five tips so you can work on Self!