Home » Lifestyle Choices » Success is a Matter of Choice

Success is a Matter of Choice

by Liane Schmidt in Lifestyle Choices, October 3, 2008

You have the freedom to define what success means to you.

Source

Unlock your potential

Whether you decide to work for a non-profit organization or become the next Brian Tracy, well-renowned self-made millionaire, the bottom line is, success is a matter of choice. You have the option to go after any career field imaginable, but with each endeavor come specific steps that you must prepare for and be willing to devote your time to. For example, if you want to go back to school, then you must commit to completing the coursework, attending classes and paying tuition and book fees. If you want to be a model, you must keep fit, have a picture portfolio, and attend auditions.

While some people are blessed enough to be “discovered,” the ultimate American dream, keep in mind that you need to place yourself in a position that allows you access to these limitless doorways to success. Additionally, shows like MTV’s “Making the Band” exemplify the reality that even if you “make it” in the show biz world, you must work, and you must work hard to produce a quality high demand outcome. P. Diddy is a tireless businessman, so too is the great, legendary, multi-billionaire, Donald Trump. These men share some important qualities that are keys to success: they believe in themselves and they will not settle for less. They know that hard work pays off and because of this they are willing to work hard.

Successful people do what unsuccessful people do not want to do.

Always remember: You get to choose the path you want to venture down. If you are not the stereotypical type “A” personality, you may commit your loyalty to a strong sound company that has a good reputation, great benefits, and the option to grow in one’s career. You have options. You do not have to travel down the road of success in any particular fashion. No one’s “map” is the correct one for anyone except themselves. Success is determined most fully by your happiness, your peace of mind, and your feelings of self-worth, fulfillment and joy in life.

Source

When you stay true to your character, integrity, and heart you are already a success head and shoulders above those who lack the courage to simply be themselves, look a person in the eyes, and treat them as they would their own flesh and blood (a the janitor, a CEO, or a movie star, equally and) regardless of the circumstances. Because, at the end of the day, people spend millions of dollars each year just to take a vacation to relax and “get away”, something you can do right now for free; people work tirelessly and treat others unkindly for a bigger paycheck at the expense of their health and well being of others and in the end, who loses the most?

No matter what anybody says or does, you know in your heart people feel their very best when they:

“Do the right thing.”

I once interned preschool classrooms observing the children. During that time I was deeply touched by a wall dedicated to the children’s artwork. Pictures of love and beauty coupled with sentences about what they wanted to be when they grew up bespoke the true essence and purpose of life: to be heroes, role models, and family to one another.

In your heart, you have always known peace of mind is priceless; a precious commodity that can never be bought or sold; when your conscience is clear, so too is your mind, body and spirit. Mistakes lay in your past; you create a new brighter path everyday, with every step you take today, tomorrow and the next.

Every minute you are making all your dreams come true!

For more success & inspiration:

21
Liked it

User Comments

  1. mdegenhardt

    On October 3, 2008 at 6:35 am


    I’m a believer that sucess is found in the heart. Youi touched on that in this article because the level of your own success can only be defined by you, you can not use someone else’s map. I really like what you have to say here and how you say it. Michael

  2. Joe Poniatowski

    On October 3, 2008 at 8:13 am


    Truly inspirational, as always Liane.

  3. Paula Mitchell-Bentley

    On October 3, 2008 at 8:24 am


    Great article and pictures! Keep it up.

  4. Gerlaine

    On October 3, 2008 at 8:35 am


    I truly needed this article right now. Thank you Liane.

  5. Lauren

    On October 3, 2008 at 9:03 am


    Inspiration Liane. You always have a great way of making people feel like they can accomplish the world. Well done.

  6. Will Gray

    On October 3, 2008 at 9:45 am


    L loved it! Very inspiring!

  7. CHAN LEE PENG

    On October 3, 2008 at 10:29 am


    Liane, thanks for your invaluable tips. Take care!

    To Zhang,

    Are you finishing with your game here? You play the same games on RJ Evan (his article on slime mold), Liane, and me (for my previous article). What else can you do? Shut up your mouth, and don’t make trouble here. Show us your works and don’t just talk rubbish here!If you want to talk rubbish, get out from here!!!

  8. CHAN LEE PENG

    On October 3, 2008 at 10:32 am


    Liane, thanks for your invaluable tips. Take care!

    To Zhang(has deleted),

    Are you finishing with your game here? You play the same games on RJ Evan (his article on slime mold), Liane, and me (for my previous article). What else can you do? Shut up your mouth, and don’t make trouble here. Show us your works and don’t just talk rubbish here!If you want to talk rubbish, get out from here!!!

    Just remind readers about this person, who tend to make trouble and talk rubbish.

  9. jo oliver

    On October 3, 2008 at 11:03 am


    nice add with the pics.

  10. Liane Schmidt

    On October 3, 2008 at 11:23 am


    Thank you with all my heart for all the wonderful comments.

    And, to you CHAN LEE PENG – there is a reason why you enjoy and continue to enjoy great success on Triond – because not only do you write about relevant, interesting, exceptionally heartwarming topics – you truly care about others – God bless you, always. Ironically, without receiving that comment, I would not have discovered what a true angel and blessing you are not only to me, but the world.

    My blessings & best wishes.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  11. Winged Lead

    On October 3, 2008 at 12:24 pm


    Liane, A well thought out and informative piece. There’s lots
    to learn in between those lines and use in everyday life.

  12. Moses Ingram

    On October 3, 2008 at 12:51 pm


    I’m a believer in this, Thank you for the tips.

  13. goodselfme

    On October 3, 2008 at 2:02 pm


    Nice encouraging write filled with lots of ideas. Thank you

  14. Darlene McFarlane

    On October 3, 2008 at 3:08 pm


    Very positively written and the pictures are a good touch.

    I am sorry you have to deal with the likes of Zhang. He/she has been a thorn in many sides on Triond for some time now. He hangs around like a bad smell but hit the spam button and ignore him. Childish pranks get old after a while.

    Love your article, Liane.

  15. NA Staffieri

    On October 3, 2008 at 9:25 pm


    Very motivational and with the right attitude. Great job.

  16. Chris Stonecipher

    On October 3, 2008 at 11:47 pm


    Liane,
    Your article is truely inspiring. I constantly remind my self to stay focused with what I want to accomplish. I am definitely not a type A personality. I enjoy working for a company that I can establish good friendships and a stable working environment.
    Thank you for sharing this inspiring and informative work with us!
    Take care,
    Chris

  17. nobert soloria bermosa

    On October 4, 2008 at 5:08 am


    encouraging…success is a matter of choice …. and hardwork,thanks Liane

  18. LP Jardine

    On October 4, 2008 at 10:52 am


    great work, especially your thoughts on staying true to yourself and having a consience.

  19. Ruby Hawk

    On October 4, 2008 at 5:53 pm


    You are right, the first thing you have to do is believe in yourself. The next thing is unflagging hard work.

  20. Melody Arcamo Lagrimas

    On October 8, 2008 at 9:24 pm


    A very thought-provoking and inspiring piece.

  21. Rumi

    On October 12, 2008 at 11:58 pm


    I found your article very interesting and helpful

  22. Liane Schmidt

    On October 13, 2008 at 12:21 pm


    Thank you all so very kindly for the support, beautiful comments. Yes, steadfast hard work, motivation and inspiration will make all your dreams a reality. You all CAN and ARE making your dreams come true!

    Best wishes & blessings to all.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

Post Comment

Powered by Powered by Triond