The Wedding Crasher
by The experiences gained by living life as it is, rather than worrying if you’re doing or have done the right thing.
So your at the end of the isle, you have your future partner standing next to you all smiles and glassy eyed. The registrar standing in front of you reading straight out the book as your family and friends are all round you, there on your big day. Even the old man stands in front videoing everything from the walk in to the walk out.
But there’s two things odd about this picture …
The first I understand is normal – Am I doing the right thing, am I going to regret this the moment I say I do? Last minute nerves..?
The second is a member of the upstairs club (spirit) who is standing in front of the old man with his face so clear and highlighted but petrified and shaking his head looking straight at me wording `NO` with his lips!
I must admit, I’ve got some dam good advice from the powers that be over the past few years and I’ve thanked them for it. But should I have taken his advice and hot tailed it out of dodge?
Before learning to say the words ‘no dear’ in my marriage, I’d became an empty shell, I had left the building and there was only a cardboard cut out of me standing in my place.
Every decision a person makes, makes the person they become. Every wrong or right turn you make, teaches you something new to add to your book of life. Life’s not about making the right choices, its not about thinking ‘Am I doing the right thing’ or regretting the things you did or didn’t say or do. Its about living it, running up and down the scales no matter which way or how often they tip.
Remember this – For every door that shuts in your face, another door opens.
(Dedicated to anyone whos gone or going through a sh*t time – everyone)
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