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		<title>By: goodselfme</title>
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		<dc:creator>goodselfme</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 23:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your ideas are ones I believe in also. thank you ofr your post. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your ideas are ones I believe in also. thank you ofr your post.</p>
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		<title>By: R.B. Parsley</title>
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		<dc:creator>R.B. Parsley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 00:09:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Liane, &lt;br /&gt;
I loved your article. I have known many negative minded people in my life. The first being my dad. I don\\\&#039;t remember him ever  saying a positive word to me in my life. He seemed to always punch holes in everything I did. When I came to Triond, they proved him wrong. Two of the most damaging words that can be said to anyone, I heard on a daily basis. Those words were \\\&quot;You can\\\&#039;t.\\\&quot; But now I know I can! My dad died in 2006. This article has been very up lifting. Thanks for the shove.&lt;br /&gt;
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                                    Randy&lt;br /&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liane, <br />
I loved your article. I have known many negative minded people in my life. The first being my dad. I don\\\&#8217;t remember him ever  saying a positive word to me in my life. He seemed to always punch holes in everything I did. When I came to Triond, they proved him wrong. Two of the most damaging words that can be said to anyone, I heard on a daily basis. Those words were \\\&#8221;You can\\\&#8217;t.\\\&#8221; But now I know I can! My dad died in 2006. This article has been very up lifting. Thanks for the shove.</p>
<p>                                    Randy</p>
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		<title>By: nobert bermosa</title>
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		<dc:creator>nobert bermosa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 08:25:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow ...what an article....very nice one,,i  love it...you are perfectly right...it&#039;s very inspiring...thanks a lot Liane</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow &#8230;what an article&#8230;.very nice one,,i  love it&#8230;you are perfectly right&#8230;it&#8217;s very inspiring&#8230;thanks a lot Liane</p>
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		<title>By: Liane Schmidt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liane Schmidt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 16:17:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you all with all my heart for your beautiful comments.  They mean more to me than words can ever fully say.  &lt;br /&gt;
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Dear To Rub, &lt;br /&gt;
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Thank you for taking the time to read my article and leave your personal thoughts.  I am so sorry to hear about your situation.  Love can be the best thing in the world and it can also be the most difficult thing to understand.  &lt;br /&gt;
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Everyday we are all still learning and growing.  Have you ever noticed that if you learn a new vocabulary word, suddenly you begin to see it everywhere - yet, it has always existed.  It&#039;s almost metaphorically like a whole new world has been opened up to you.  It&#039;s not your fault that you didn&#039;t know about it before, but now that you do you have more information to move forward and a broader understanding of your world and how to manuever within it.  &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
In other words, if you did not know that you did something to hurt another&#039;s feelings, it&#039;s not your fault.  It sounds like you did not do something to intentionally hurt someone.  We will all &quot;step on each other&#039;s toes&quot; from time to time.  But if we apologize right away, show that we care, etc. there is no need to feel bad or beat yourself up about it any further.  &lt;br /&gt;
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We are all just doing the best we can everyday with the limited information we know.  By reaching out and trying to get help so that you don&#039;t continue to make the same mistakes doubly shows me that you are a kindhearted person who never wants to hurt anyone.  Take comfort in these thoughts.&lt;br /&gt;
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Be good to yourself.  A broken heart is tough enough to get through alone - please don&#039;t hurt yourself more with something you did not mean to do.&lt;br /&gt;
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My best wishes &amp; blessings to you and everyone always.&lt;br /&gt;
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Sincerely,&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
-Liane Schmidt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you all with all my heart for your beautiful comments.  They mean more to me than words can ever fully say.  </p>
<p>Dear To Rub, </p>
<p>Thank you for taking the time to read my article and leave your personal thoughts.  I am so sorry to hear about your situation.  Love can be the best thing in the world and it can also be the most difficult thing to understand.  </p>
<p>Everyday we are all still learning and growing.  Have you ever noticed that if you learn a new vocabulary word, suddenly you begin to see it everywhere &#8211; yet, it has always existed.  It&#8217;s almost metaphorically like a whole new world has been opened up to you.  It&#8217;s not your fault that you didn&#8217;t know about it before, but now that you do you have more information to move forward and a broader understanding of your world and how to manuever within it.  </p>
<p>In other words, if you did not know that you did something to hurt another&#8217;s feelings, it&#8217;s not your fault.  It sounds like you did not do something to intentionally hurt someone.  We will all &#8220;step on each other&#8217;s toes&#8221; from time to time.  But if we apologize right away, show that we care, etc. there is no need to feel bad or beat yourself up about it any further.  </p>
<p>We are all just doing the best we can everyday with the limited information we know.  By reaching out and trying to get help so that you don&#8217;t continue to make the same mistakes doubly shows me that you are a kindhearted person who never wants to hurt anyone.  Take comfort in these thoughts.</p>
<p>Be good to yourself.  A broken heart is tough enough to get through alone &#8211; please don&#8217;t hurt yourself more with something you did not mean to do.</p>
<p>My best wishes &#038; blessings to you and everyone always.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>-Liane Schmidt.</p>
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		<title>By: Alana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 11:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Liane!&lt;br /&gt;
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Very good article! You&#039;re a really good writer!&lt;br /&gt;
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keep up the good work! &lt;br /&gt;
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Alana Andrews :)&lt;br /&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Liane!</p>
<p>Very good article! You&#8217;re a really good writer!</p>
<p>keep up the good work! </p>
<p>Alana Andrews <img src='http://socyberty.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>xxx</p>
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		<title>By: Francie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Francie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2008 04:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I look forward to every positive article you write. Since I started here at Triond I have seen you grow at a very fast rate. You write beautifully and have such compassion for others. Thank you for all that you have shared and all your positivity. You have a very giving and kind heart!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I look forward to every positive article you write. Since I started here at Triond I have seen you grow at a very fast rate. You write beautifully and have such compassion for others. Thank you for all that you have shared and all your positivity. You have a very giving and kind heart!!</p>
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		<title>By: TP Sage</title>
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		<dc:creator>TP Sage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 18:40:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your willingness to share yourself makes this just that much more uplifting.  When I saw the title I thought of Brian Tracy.  I can&#039;t think of a better guide to a successful life, and I have no doubt you will reach your dreams.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your willingness to share yourself makes this just that much more uplifting.  When I saw the title I thought of Brian Tracy.  I can&#8217;t think of a better guide to a successful life, and I have no doubt you will reach your dreams.</p>
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		<title>By: Ellen Ruppart</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ellen Ruppart</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 05:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a beautiful and inspirational article! Thanks again, Liane.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a beautiful and inspirational article! Thanks again, Liane.</p>
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		<title>By: ANDY-N</title>
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		<dc:creator>ANDY-N</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 04:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In a world where most people choose to be self absorbed it is nice to see people like Liane don&#039;t give up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a world where most people choose to be self absorbed it is nice to see people like Liane don&#8217;t give up.</p>
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		<title>By: C A Johnson</title>
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		<dc:creator>C A Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 23:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You did a very good job. Your article was very inspirational to me. I definitely need to think more positively about things. Thank you! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You did a very good job. Your article was very inspirational to me. I definitely need to think more positively about things. Thank you! <img src='http://socyberty.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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