Attractive Qualities of a Man
by Single women are always looking for a relationship, even if they say they aren’t. The fact is that nobody wants to be alone, be male or female.
Now, you may be thinking “alright, I know that they are looking for men but I’m still single, so it cannot be that simple” and here’s what I tell you: IT IS THAT SIMPLE! Let me give you an example to open your mind: it’s a hot day and a friend of yours says that he wants an ice cream. He never needed to say that he wanted a cold ice cream, because ice creams are meant to be cold. Same thing here, women want REAL men, even if they don’t say it.
There are some things you have to keep in mind if you want to become that real man and actually attract a woman into your life:
- You Are a Sexual Being
You are a sexual being as much as she is, so there’s no need to hide it. Women actually want men that show signs of sexuality. I am not saying you have to be a jerk, like those bullies you used to run away at high school, but you have to take responsibility for your actions. She knows you are interested in her and acting like she’s just a friend is not attractive. Don’t deny your interest in her.
- Don’t Be Needy
If you try hard, you die hard. ‘NICE’ guys usually don’t get women because they push, push and push, as if they were saying “I beg you, please like me”. Women hate guys that keep pushing, so don’t be one of those. If she says no, you say “I understand”. Don’t be angry, don’t blame her and don’t act like she’s ruined your night. If she’s not attracted to you, there’s almost nothing you can do about it. Being non-needy is extremely attractive.
- Don’t Bother Her with Your Problems
Avoid subjects like work, religion, politics and sports. She doesn’t care if you love Obama or if you hate your boss. DON’T bother her. The best thing to talk about is herself, so go into her personal life (without being intrusive) and she’ll enjoy your company.
- Take a good care of yourself
Women spend hours making themselves beautiful. The least you can do is being well-groomed. Set aside some time to take care of yourself, they’ll appreciate that.
- Be Vulnerable
Don’t get me wrong, despite having all these qualities you still have to show her that you are a human being. Remember that you have an emotional side and there’s nothing wrong showing it to her once in a while.
- Be Present
When you’re with her don’t dream about other things. Be fully present. Listen to what she’s saying and truly pay attention to her. This way you’re not going to run out of things to talk about and she’ll feel worthy.
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Post CommentFresh Writing
On April 14, 2009 at 12:41 am
Advice always appreciated! Nicely done.
I like the needy part; very accurate. I know quite a few guys that are really nice but have NEVER gotten a girlfriend before, mostly because they cling to their want-to-be girlfriend 24/7…unfortunate, really, but an unattractive quality nonetheless.
-Fresh Writing
starrlove9
On April 14, 2009 at 7:55 am
loved it!
Resounding Glass
On April 15, 2009 at 2:07 am
Great article. Like Fresh, the advice is very much appreciated. Being needy is never a good thing as clinging to them or practically begging them to go out with you is not attractive at all.
Thanks,
-Resounding Glass
Mrs M
On April 15, 2009 at 3:02 pm
There are so many attractive qualities in any person. You definitely named a few good ones.
Will
On April 18, 2009 at 3:12 pm
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Keity
On April 18, 2009 at 4:03 pm
Loved it!
KristinaM
On April 18, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Not to bad I agree with it.
Joie Schmidt
On April 19, 2009 at 2:53 pm
Very nice article!
Blessings.
Sincerely,
-Liane Schmidt.
Kinkyvinyl
On April 22, 2009 at 1:39 pm
Great advice to all men (REAL men) out there ….. especially the sensitive side ;o)
Jenny Heart
On April 22, 2009 at 4:46 pm
The idea about everybody taking good care of their appearanc is very true. Like it!
kaybabe1321
On April 22, 2009 at 7:36 pm
I agree on everything accept the part where you said “Don’t bother her with your problems”. Only because, I believe work, politics, and religion are key parts of a relationship, and if the relationship lasts then these will be topics of many conversations. I also believe that if the woman and the man were to differ in these areas, then they know right up front if they can handle the differences or not, therefore, wasting no time getting to the point; Will it work or not? Yes sports can be left out no argument there.
I do like your writing though and it seems that you are very open minded, also a GREAT quality in men.
Prettygirl17
On April 22, 2009 at 9:56 pm
It’s true that single women want a man even if they don’t admit it. I’m one of them!! lol I loved all the qualities you described!! It’s really annoying when guys are needy, but I love guys who tell me they like me and don’t try to hide their feelings all the time. I like guys who open up to me and are willing to show their vulnerable side!! Listening to me is also a plus!! Nice stuff!! Very true!! lol
Antonette Ramos
On April 23, 2009 at 12:24 am
wow! i liked it! you are absolutely right… nobody really wants to be alone.. it is just a sad fact that very few of today’s men can be called “mr. soulmate..”