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Breasts: Why are Men Always Looking?

One man’s explanation and preference relating to women’s breasts.

It’s no secret that one of the first things a man notices on a woman are her breasts….there’s just no getting around it. A guy’s eyes just naturally, instinctually look picturing them naked…something that has to be accomplished in the blink of an eye before he gets caught looking. For me personally, it’s not the fact that I was caught looking…it’s the dirty “how dare you be looking at my breasts” look that I get when our eyes meet. And heaven forbid if you get caught looking at woman’s breasts when she has an uncontrolled nipple erection happening…ladies…please keep in mind it’s something men recognize as a precursor to having sex…and of course we’re going to look.

Now that we’ve established a rationale for constantly looking at your breasts, let’s address the whole big breast vs. little breast controversy. Like the size of a man’s penis a woman has no control over the size of her breasts…you get what you get and that’s all you’ve got to work with so all you ladies out there with small breasts…stop being so self-conscious. In the world of boobs…bigger doesn’t mean better. Of course, I can only offer my own personal view, but to all you big boob lovers out there…you’re all wrong and I’m right…small breasts are much, much better.

Something else that all you small-breasted women should be happy know is that as you age…you’re breasts will stay firmer and perkier longer than your big-breasted counterparts, at least that’s been my experience. And the women you see in the X-rated videos or on the Internet…the ones with the implants, well they don’t even move…they just sit there on her body, motionless…like a big, round rock, which, for me at least, is not very attractive.

Another thing you small-breasted women out there need NOT be concerned about is your lack of cleavage. Cleavage is useless…you can’t do anything with it.

So be happy with your small breasts. Never be embarrassed about them or feel physically inferior to your big-breasted rivals or think you’re not as sexually appealing because…number one…it’s not true and number two…it’s not as important as the world wants you to think it is and it’s really a waste of your time to worry about it.

So this takes us back to the beginning of the article. In a lot of advertising, magazines, commercials, and movies the majority of the women have fairly large breasts which are tanned…covered with Vaseline and sprayed with water to make them appear like they’re all sweaty…and whatever they’re wearing is two sizes too small…and their cleavage is showing…all techniques to get you to look. So the next time a man looks at your breasts remember – he’s been programmed by society to do that…so enjoy the attention and take his lustful look as a compliment.

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  1. weegysgram

    On January 10, 2009 at 7:21 am

    cute article and I am a woman an I still think it is cute. (smile)have a great day

  2. Angelia

    On February 2, 2009 at 10:34 am

    I was impressed by your opinion. I, too, am small breasted and feel exactly the way you told us not too. Due to the title of the article I assumed that the comment would be by another typical male lusting over large breasts. Thank you for your comments. My husband tells me the same thing but I find it hard to believe especially when I notice him admiring large breasted women. It makes me feel like I am not sexy enough and that he might feel like he is missing out. This article was so uplifting that it makes me almost think it was written by another small breasted woman.

  3. Amanda

    On February 27, 2009 at 7:10 pm

    I understand your intention to make small breasted women feel adequate and sexy with what they have. However, I think that saying that small is “much, much better” is just exacerbating the problem by once again judging based on size.

    Perhaps it would be better to stop focussing on “perfection” and appreciate diversity – I am sure men would get pretty bored if we all had exactly the same breasts.

  4. david

    On March 6, 2009 at 6:06 pm

    I just love em all.Thank heavens for breasts

  5. Darla Beck

    On May 25, 2009 at 2:46 pm

    Nice article. Very interesting.


    On August 2, 2009 at 6:04 pm

    u r sir a sexpert

    do u know when u spurt

    women simultaneously

    ought to but rarely


    how do u do to ensure that

    thats what u should teach this world

  7. Rebecca Anne Grant

    On August 3, 2009 at 1:46 am

    The last time I caught my husband doing this, (which was years ago) I threatened to go tell the lady that he liked what she had. Let me tell you, he doesn’t do this around me anymore. He knows I will, too! I think you should respect your woman, because what goes around comes around, and she can eyeball too, and just might get more looks than you do.

  8. Brenda Nelson

    On August 6, 2009 at 10:21 pm

    Proud to sy I have small boobs and my husband is like you, a fan of small boobs!

    Fake ones.. just look fake..and a bit freaky too.

  9. WriteEditSeek

    On October 13, 2009 at 2:14 am

    LOL, nice article. I agree with you: small plums are better. I can’t imagine hauling large jugs around. That makes my shoulders hurt to contemplate it.


    On November 3, 2009 at 7:10 am

    I used to work in a female prison and part of my daily duty was strip searches. It was then that I realised that 90% of women DO NOT have perfect breasts. One is often larger than the other, they can sit at different heights, nipples can be central on one breast and off centre on the other, some women have one nipple that is inverted and the other is not. Nipples can be different sizes ( on the same woman).

    I am a straight female so this is merely an observation of other women and I can honestly say that in my experience, a woman with ‘perfect’ breasts regardless of size is the exception and not the rule.

    Most women dont get to see the breast of hundreds of NORMAL EVERYDAY females ( NOT the ones you see on TV or in magazines) and they spend their lives worrying that they are the ones who are not normal or imperfect in some way.

    The fact is that ‘perfect’ breasts are rare!

  11. LoveDoctor

    On January 17, 2010 at 4:18 am

    Well, I will let you be the judge of that from my pic. lol.
    I always catch guys looking at my breasts and I am not sure why considering that I am not big. anyways, interesting topics that you write about.


    On January 17, 2010 at 6:47 pm


    Breasts are the first portion
    Of a woman’s body
    Those all human beings
    Males and females,
    Get acquainted with obviously

    So men who normally
    Don’t have breasts
    Are breast fixated
    They love to see
    Smooth lovely looking cleavage
    It adds to desire
    Doesn’t it?

    Even women know it
    They all are
    As uselessly obsessed
    With their breasts,
    As you rightly say
    That all men are
    With their penises
    God help all
    As long as breasts are taught
    And penis iron like
    All thoughts of sex
    Will never be fraught

    Girls love to see men staring
    As much as men want to see
    Them theirs’
    Hard on’s glaring.

  13. zoeyclark

    On January 18, 2010 at 4:50 am

    ha ha. Well, I do have big breasts and they are not fake. It is genetic, and I like them. They come with disadvantages but I am not going to go around and try to make them smaller.

  14. The Name

    On June 7, 2010 at 4:57 pm

    Dude you are so right! Who needs big breast <.< I mean I hate when people complane for there size. The only female that I know who has big breast is a female who feels uncomfortable…

  15. Maximillion

    On October 29, 2011 at 1:39 pm

    You are right! I am a guy and Small breasts are better than big breasts. I think Small breasts are better because something small and real is always better than something big and fake. So whoever made plastic breast surgery should get a life. Anyway I am one of those guys who are a fan of small breasts.

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