I am going to show you the greatest power a man can have in a relationship.

• It is not the power to “seduce” women.
• It is not the power to “control” a relationship.
• It is not the power to pick up women with “magic words”.

The greatest power a man can have is actually the power to walk AWAY from a bad relationship or a woman with bad character

After years of research, surveys and actual experience, I’ve come to the conclusion that the neediness in most guys only come as a result of their unwillingness to “let go”.

For example, they cling onto a woman even though she’s a liar and chronic-cheater. Or he follows her rules because he’s afraid of what may happen if he doesn’t.

Of course, a man can try to act confident instead of needy through his actions. One can do things such as saying “no” to women on purpose or teasing her whenever he gets the chance.

But an even better way is to just “BE PREPARED TO LEAVE MENTALLY”

You do NOT have to put up with ANY garbage.

For example

1. If a woman is SELFISH – LEAVE HER!
2. If a woman takes you for granted – LEAVE HER!
3. If a woman is a chronic liar, – LEAVE HER!
4. If a woman cheats – LEAVE HER!
5. If a woman bitches, – LEAVE HER!
6. If a woman uses you for money, – LEAVE HER!
7. If a woman is “mean” to you, – LEAVE HER!

As soon as you have this “I can leave at anytime” attitude, the dynamics of the relationship will change; the woman will realize that she may lose you if she takes you for granted.

If you’re one of those “weak-minded” guys who are always afraid of being dumped or rejected by a woman, then adapting this mindset can literally change your life!

10 Signs a Woman May Have Character Problems

Here are 10 signs a woman may have character problems.

1. She falls in love WAY too fast.

   When a woman advances WAY faster than most women do, watch out. It may not mean you’re “lucky”, it may just mean you’re dealing with a psycho. Watch out for her either dominating your life completely or falling out of love with you just as fast.

2. She treats her family badly

   Watch out for women who treat their family members badly or say bad things about them. Eventually she’ll treat you that way too.

3. She likes to blame the world

   If a woman blames the world for everything that happens to her instead of taking responsibility for her own actions, you can be sure there’ll be LOTS of drama in your life if you start dating her.

4. She’s on drugs.

   Drugs are bad and will mess up a woman’s mind and body, period. I can understand college kids smoking weed (though even that is debatable), but anything beyond that is just BAD for you.

5. She’s an alcoholic

   In the past I have been flamed by readers for my advice on avoiding alcoholics. To all you alcoholic-lovers out there, I am sorry to offend you but I still stand by what I believe in. It’s okay to date an ex alcoholic who’s been clean for a few years, but it is NOT okay to date a woman (or man) who is still an alcoholic.

6. She hangs out with the wrong crowd

   As I have mentioned in the past, you can often judge a person’s character by looking at their choice of friends. So if your new girlfriend hangs around with the wrong crowd, watch out.

7. She plays mind games from the start

   If you can “sense” a woman is playing mind games with you, chances are, she is. Stay away…or there’ll be a lot of drama and hurt feelings…potentially on BOTH sides!

8. Her income and living space do not justify the lifestyle she has.

   A little surprised that she can afford all the nice clothes and makeup when she lives in a hole or works at a coffee shop? It’s a sign that she’s a gold digger and has at least one other man out there who is supporting her.

   Always be cautious about women who lifestyles do not match with their income or home. Even if she is NOT a gold digger, you don’t want a woman who maxes out your credit on handbags and fancy gowns when you get married. (Yes – there are many people out there who live on credit. NOT good!)

9. Her stories don’t match up

   Do her stories seem to not match up? Watch out? She could be a chronic liar. When dealing with liars and cheaters, follow my two-strike rule. First time, you let her off with a warning. Second time, it’s over!

10. Your friends tell you there are things wrong with the woman

    Friends are usually less-biased than you are since they are not in love with your girl. If everybody starts telling you how they think your new girlfriend is a slut or a manipulative bitch, it’s time to take a step back and see why they feel that way.

Should We Ever Say “Sorry” To A Woman?

Most men believe that it is wrong to say “sorry” to a woman. There are some “Mr. Who knows all” who teaches men to say “too bad” instead of “sorry” to a woman whenever they make a mistake.

I STRONGLY DISAGREE!!

I think it’s perfectly okay to say “sorry” to a woman… as long as:

1. You have a real reason to say it.
2. You don’t repeat it.
3. You don’t ask for forgiveness.

A real man shouldn’t be afraid of admitting his own mistakes. If he screws up really badly, he shouldn’t be afraid to apologize to anyone. Just apologize, and let it go. After all, part of being a man is accept responsibility for your own action.

What you DON’T want to do, however, is to keep on begging a woman for forgiveness. A lot of men who do apologize to women make the mistake of apologizing “too much”.

The human mind is very interesting. If you “keep on” saying “sorry” to a woman, she is going to get on a power trip and keep “pretending” that she’s mad at you in order to hear more – until she actually BELIEVES that she’s mad at you. Sometimes, they will eventually forget WHY they are mad at you, but STAY MAD at you anyway in order to keep the upper hand.

So…instead of begging for forgiveness, just say “sorry”, admit you’ve made a mistake, and change topics. If she’s really mad at you, leave her alone and let her blow up some steam. But don’t ask for forgiveness. You’ve already apologized. Asking for forgiveness won’t do you any good.

Lastly, be careful about saying ” sorry” if you’re one of those guys who are “always sorry”. While there is no problem with saying “sorry” when you have made a big mistake, you should NOT apologize for everything you do on a date.

Five Types of women I avoid dating

Here are 5 types of women I avoid dating if i’m interested in developing a healthy long-term relationship.

1. Chronic Cheater

   Never date a chronic cheater. Even though attraction has a lot to do with whether a woman cheats on you or not (a woman will be less likely to cheat on you if she’s CRAZY about you), some women are more prone to cheating. It’s just in their DNA/ character and they can’t help it. The moment you turn your back on her and a hot stud (or even a not-so-hot guy) walks by, she’s going to want him. Remember the rules on dealing with cheaters. First strike, you can give her another chance if you’re feeling forgiving. Second strike and she’s out of your life permanently, because the fact that she has cheated on you AGAIN proves that you’ve already made the mistake the first time.

2. Golddigger

   Call me a cheapskate, but never spend more than php 2k on a date unless it’s a special occassion. A woman should offer to pay half of the time. And if she dares to ask you to buy her expensive things, it’s time to lay the smack down and throw her out.

3. Baggage Girl

   Baggage girls are even worse than golddiggers. Golddiggers take your money, which you could always earn back by working hard and working smart. But baggage girls drain you of your energy until you end up feeling depressed like her.

   Forget about playing the therapist or “saving” the girl you like. You’re her BOYFRIEND, not her “therapist” or “vent outlet”.

   Remember what I always say: Relationships are ALREADY hard enough to sustain with a “healthy” woman, so dating a woman with a lot of emotional baggage is like ASKING FOR TROUBLE. It’s like carrying a rigged time bomb around your pocket, not knowing when it will explode.

4. Self-Proclaimed Princess

   The self-proclaimed princess is a spoiled little brat who is too used to getting everything (and anything) she wants in life. Rich parents, good looks, plenty of suitors to appease her. She breaks a nail and she wants you to drive her to the nail salon immediately. Cooking and doing house chores are out of the question for her. She just wants to sit there and be pampered to death.

   You can date a princess if she is flexible and WILLING to fit herself into YOUR world. But if she doesn’t, then it’s time to kick her into the air, back to the top of the castle tower where she belongs.

5. Chronic Bitch

   Women that are negative about everything in life are deadly. They argue about EVERYTHING and once married, their favorite hobby is making their men feel guilty.

   Here’s how to test if a woman is a chronic: If you hear ANY negative comment from her about ANYTHING on a first date, it’s a sign she has a lot of bent-up anger inside her. Run the other way.

What If A Woman Cheats On You?

There are two reasons why a woman would cheat on you. The first one is her low attraction for you. The more a woman is attracted to you, the nicer she will be to you. When a woman is very, very, attracted to you, she will do everything she can to please you. On the other hand, the less a woman is attracted to you, the more likely she will do naughty things such as fooling around with other guys behind your back.

The second reason a woman would cheat on you is that she is disloyal. Some women are more loyal than others, and that’s why you need to make sure a woman is loyal before you commit to her. Think of it this way: there is a “tolerance level” in every woman’s system. Every woman can only take a certain amount of temptation before she cheats on a man. Your job is to find a woman with a high tolerance level and keep the attraction high so that the temptation is low.

But what if a woman cheats?

“Once a cheater, always a cheater? is my belief.

I can’t tell you whether you should break up with her or not. That’s a decision that YOU’ll have to make. The more control you want to have over your own life, the more RESPONSIBILITIES you have to take – including standing up for yourself and figuring what YOU want.

All I can tell you is that if you choose to stay, you’re probably going to be in for a rough life. In my experience, a lot of women that have cheated the first time will also cheat for a second or third time. If you’re softhearted and want to forgive your girlfriend or wife once, then make sure you follow the “two strikes and you’re out rule”. After all, if a woman cheats on you a SECOND time, it means you’ve already made a mistake the first time. Don’t make the same mistake again!

“Why Do Women Cancel Dates And What To Do About It”

9 out of 10 times a woman flakes out on a date with you because she’s not really into you. A true “emergency” doesn’t happen often. So if a woman breaks a date with you out of a sudden, you can bet she’s breaking it because she’s not attracted to you. The only exception is if she makes another date with you right away. So why do women agree to dates if they know they’re going to cancel it anyway? I believe it’s because a lot of women have trouble saying “no” to a man.

You see, most women have trouble saying “no” to a guy. They don’t know how to say “no” to you in person, so rather than rejecting you cold on the spot and embarrassing you, they resort to flaking out on you over the phone or through email. When a woman does this to you, don’t act upset or beg for another date. Instead, play it cool and act happy.

Example: “Oh. That’s really too bad. We could have had so much fun hanging out together. But it’s okay. I bumped into my friend Jenny the other day and she wanted me to go to her party. I had to turn her down because I had already agreed to hang out with you but I guess I can go after all…”

Then throw her number away and toss her out of your mind!

What If She Doesn’t Call Back?

I am often asked, “What should I do if a woman doesn’t call back or answer my message?”

Move on.

Yes, I know these words sound harsh, but if a woman isn’t answering your calls, that’s a sign of low attraction right there. Pestering her will only push you further into the negative zone.

If you want to be persistent, then you can try flirting with her more IN PERSON to increase the attraction before you call again. This is your ONLY option because if a woman isn’t even answering the phone, NOTHING you say is going to change her mind. No matter how “cute” your messages are, she’s not going to call you back.

Just stop calling her and work on other women for now!