How to Ask a Woman Out
by For many men, asking a woman out can be a nightmare. This could even be worse than going to your boss at work and asking him a raise. But still, a date with a woman can be so tempting and many men are willing to do anything, just to go out on one. And it sure does sound good when you hear “Yes”. Here are some tips that will help you to ask a woman out and get a “Yes”. Off course, these tips will prevent you from doing something stupid as well.
Men quickly notice a woman, her beautiful smile and her kindness. But when they need to go to her and tell her all that, things become complicated. You start to develop scenarios in your head and none of them sounds good. Luckily, there are some tips that will prevent this.
Tell her what you want
Don’t beat around the bush. There is no point in pick up lines. Just go to her and tell her what you really want. Just like when you are going to Walmart Photo Studio to have your portraits done. You need to tell the photographer what you want. If you do, she will see you as a man with a lot of self confidence, the one who is not afraid to take initiative. And women just love that kind of men. So, if you want ask a woman out, do so! You are a man, so act like one.
No e-mails
If a woman, who you want to ask out, is also shy, she won’t know what to do. One thing is for certain, she’ll have time to think about it. And this is something you don’t want to. Women are great in playing mind games, so don’t have one with them. They always win. So, forget about cell phone messages, e-mails, or regular mail. If she is far away, call her over the phone. This way you will get a quick response with not much thinking. So, if you want to ask a woman out, no e-mails!
Straight in the eyes
Don’t you just love her eyes? Well, that’s not the point over here. You want to ask a woman out. Not to admire her eyes. The real point is to show her just how much you are interested. So, put a smile on your face. This way she’ll know that you can be cute. And women like cute guys. That’s why they keep their brother’s or dear friends’s Wal Mart Portraits on their living room shelves. If you are nervous, you’ll probably make her nervous too. Not to mention that you are going to look like a complete geek. Remember, women like strong and confident men.
Don’t let her take the initiative
Never let her take the initiative. You have to be in control of the situation. If she is not ready to give you an answer right away and has a reasonable explanation, make sure that you ask her again. Don’t let her call you back. This is because she probably won’t. Just try not to be pushy. You want to ask a woman out, not to bore her.
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Post CommentCyberkinetix
On June 30, 2009 at 6:06 am
… unless she’s pushing you into a closet or confiscating your pants – then let her take the initiative